that was SO BEAUTIFUL. ohmygoodness, i can't even begin to say how much i loved that and why. Christian is my hero and i'm so happy that he'll be moving in with you for the time being. thank you all so much. oh Stephanie! please dont feel stupid. we are so blessed to know this story and we are so blessed to be changed by this story. thank you times infinity!
I'm so happy that Stephanie and Christian are in Utah! Thanks for the updates, Courtney, and for taking care of the children, your home, your husband, the blogs, your young women, etc . . . You're amazing and I'm so glad I know you and can read your inspiring words.
I agree. She does a great job telling the story, but I think you could do it even better Courtney. :) Your family is always in my prayers, and I am very glad to hear that Stephanie and Christian are closer to you now...logistically.
Amazing story! Brought tears to my eyes, again! Stephanie & Christian are amazing and I pray for her physical, emotional, and spiritual healing!!
I pray she will realize how she has touched so many lives and made others want to be better mothers, wifes, daughters etc. You too! Your mom raised wonderful people!!
It pays to have OCD - I am the first to comment? crazy. Well, AZ is not the same without Stephanie! Congratulations. Thank you for giving us such a beautiful testimony builder!
I forgot how beautifully she can tell I story. I know this is a sad situation but Stephanie can get through this because of you, your family and Christian's family. You are all such remarkable people. Prayers to all of you......
I heard about your Blog awhile back and found myself reading from the beginning about your family and what you've been through. What a fantastic show of love and devotion you've shared with everyone. Thank you for opening up your life to us.
Congratulations to Stephanie and Christian on their latest progress! What a great Holiday present to all of you.
That was a beautiful article. She is such a great writer, but then again she has such great people to write about. I hope that she keeps writing such sweet articles about them. I hope that all is well in Utah. We pray for them and all your family often.
Thank you for sharing your family's story. I know you're aware of how many people truly care about Stephanie, Christian, their children and extended family, but all of us "strangers" have been changed and stretched and forever set on different paths because of you all. Thank you, thank you!
what a beautifully written article !! i am so excited for them to be closer to all of you .. i love the utah mountains .. i know she will do so well .. sending prayers still jenn and famun
boy we've prayed for this for so long. and what a GREAT article. you are all so beautiful and SO STRONG. true inspirations for being great women, mothers, and sisters alike.
That was beautiful. Christian is the new Edward. I don't know how anyone could read that and not fall in love with him. I'm so glad Nie Nie has him! (And you, of course.)
I can hardly contain my tears, of both happiness and sadness. I am sad because she is fearful of what to come, but I am so happy she is going home to Utah to be with her family.
You all have so much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. You will be in my heart, like always, on Thanksgiving. I have become a better person because of you. ~Kimberly in Ohio
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us. You have a beautiful family and are so blessed to have such a closeness. Your family has blessed my life and family. Thank you. Much love and prayers to you.
Amazing. Just amazing. And let me point out the inspiration that Christian brings - that of being a partner of unconditional love and support. He is a phenomenal human being and one that continues to inspire me in his devotion and steadfastness. Thank you!
I read the story this a.m. in the AZ. Republic, great story. You all are amazing individuals, tell Stephanie and Christian they are beautiful with a beautiful family.
Beautiful update and beautiful family! the strenght and humility amaze and touch me everyday. your words to your sister are simple and beautiful.. thank you so much for keeping us posted... my throat is achinig with unshed tears, but i have a very happy smile to go with it!
I am changed by your sisters story. I am changed by your families faith and love. I am mostly inspired to worry more about what I give in life and care less about what the total of what I ever receive is. To love is truly gift enough. Godspeed wonderful healing to both Christian and Stephanie.
I am so excited for them! My sisiter went out to dinner with one of Christians older sisters and she told my sister that the doctors were completely shocked and amazed at Stephanies healing!! I have told my husband all along that she will make it through this and she will amaze people over and over!! She just seems so strong and positive, there is something about her, she was meant to be heard and known all around the world for a huge reason...probably many reasons,she has changed so many peoples view on life including mine!! She and Christian are such great examples! It's funny that she would ever feel stupid because she is soooo the opposite...everything happens for a reason and her of all people will find the positive out of all of this for sure! Time heals, especially with her husband and family by her side!! Courtney, you and you're family are amazing and I'm so glad the world gets to see how great and important Family and faith is by reading your blog, the world needs to see this and you're family is a perfect example!!
Thank you for always keeping us posted. Everyday I check for updates. They always make me smile-somedays cry but it's always worth it. You're all in my prayers.
that is so eye-opening.. that makes Christian and Stephanie seem so much more "real" to me.
I sometimes (often, actually??) feel like a failure as a wife and mother. I'm too easily frustrated. Too quick to impatience. Too easily disappointed. Too selfish.
And really, nobody (hopefully) but me really knows that I feel that way.
I loved reading NieNie before because I felt like she gave me something to aspire to. I felt like---- "here she is, this young woman with 4 kids, and you KNOW they have to drive her crazy sometimes. But look how she is showing her life. Look at the memories her kids will remember. I want to be more like THAT."
It really touches me that she said "I feel stupid." I just want to hug her. Stephanie--- if you read this sometime, thank you. Thank you for teaching me how to be a better wife and mother. Thank you. And thank you for allowing this intensely personal event in your life be yet another example, even though it might make you feel stupid and shy. It wasn't your fault.
I laughed out loud when Ashley referred to Christian as the new Edward!! I TOTALLY AGREE!!! Thank you so much for the inspiration and I look forward to your posts every day :)
I'm so happy she's coming "home" to heal. Although I know her home is wherever her husband is, having the help of her sisters and parents will ease much of her burden.
It's really surreal that she's awake and moving and talking and reacting. For so long she was a sleeping beauty. I marvel at her/your/their strength and continue to have all of you in my thoughts and prayers. You both have been such a force for good in the blogging world and now just the plain ol' world.
That was beautiful - it brought instant tears to my eyes! Your family is amazing to have shared this with everyone when it could have so easily been kept private. Thank you for sharing your pain, and your strength, your joys, and your testimony. You have had such an amazing impact on so many people. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I'm so glad to see that Stephanie and Christian are in UT with you all. AZ will miss her but she is where she needs to be.
Amazing.... the way each update captures your soul and makes you realize how each moment of life should be cherished. I wish you and your family the very best.
oh that was wonderful. so wonderful to read. poor baby, her arms hurt...that was hard to read, about the pain. i worry about her hurting too much. but i totally believe that being closer to you all with lessen her pain, actually and physically lessen it. her brain will respond to the safety and love being so close. christian is so sweet. you all are love personified.
Christian is a good man! I love how he is so kind and thoughtful about Stephanie’s needs and feelings. They are such an adorable couple. Perfect for each other. We pray for a smooth transition into this new phase.
I loved the article. Thank you for posting it! I'm so happy that Stephanie and Christian are up in Utah now with her family. It makes me so happy that things will and are getting better. Good luck with everything. Tell them good luck with everything. I think about them everyday and pray for them always. Thank you so much for the updates. I check your blog so often to see how everything is going. Bless them and your family!
"Live your life so that those you know you but don't know HIM, will want to know HIM because they know you."
I don't know who said that but I think of it every time I read about your family and all they are going through. I am so happy for Christian and Stephanie and excited their children get them back! Thank you for your example and your words. You are a strengh to us all.
What a heartwarming story--ty Jaimee Rose! Nie and Christian, you don't know me but I want to remind you that although your childrens lives HAVE been changed and will continue to change, that is NOT your fault! We don't know why bad things happen but we DO know that God can make something good out of them. And He has and continues to do so--even for your precious children. They've been sheltered and nurtured and allowed to feel their feelings too. I hope you will allow yourselves to do the grieving you have to do and then move forward--as I KNOW you will! Christian, you are a true gentleman....a Godly man. Stephanie is so blessed to have you. I know it must be very hard for you too and I pray that you will continue to stand strong as you both heal and reunite as a family. Courtney, as always, you are AWESOME--as is the whole family! I loved it when you told Nie that she can "feel stupid" now but that she has brought about change for so many people she doesn't even know. May you all be richly blessed! Love, Lori
She did such a beautiful job! I'm so happy for you, for Christian and Stephanie's kids to have their parents close by.. It's good that they are moving to Utah to be close to family. My husband runs a rehab center in CA. I know how much work is ahead for Stephanie, but I know she will do great! She's got so many cheerleaders! Thanks for all you do to keep strangers like me updated on such a wonderful family!
I race home from work each day to ~Check on Steph...faithfully awaiting nothing but bittersweet news & through my smiles & tears I just pray she knows how many lives she has changed
~to hear the precious daily happenings of an amazing woman & her compassion & Christlike love she shares with her sisters angel children
~to be inspired, to be reminded of life's greatest blessings, to be more grateful ~to be touched....forever!
She is a wonderful story teller and like Christian said - you are an extraordinary family. I'm still praying for all of you and really thank you for reminding me of my real purpose. Who knows where I would be without you and Nie's story telling.
I really hope they make a movie or something to touch people outside of the blogging community. Your family's faith and love really does prove that this world is good. It really is.
I am so happy that they are going to be in Utah, closer to their children! I believe that will help recovery so much! I am so touched by your amazing family & wonder when all these stories & updates will stop bringing me to tears!
Such a beautiful article. I am also happy to hear that the family is back in UT again so that you can all see each other more often. You are all in our positive thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your wonderful examples and beautiful lives.
oh what a beautifully writen story/update. I love, love, love reading updates on how you are all going, espcialy hearing that Stephanie is improving daily.
And to now be back home in her hometown surrounded by all those that love her so dearly....
What a beautiful article. I love everything that she has written--both the sad and the beautiful. What a testament to love Stephanie and Christian are, and both families (parents, sisters, brothers, children--everyone!) as well! Our lives have all been blessed by watching this journey and praying for you all.
It's wonderful that Stephanie and Christian are back in Utah. I watched and helped a friend make his way back from a traumatic brain injury several years ago, and Christian is right that it takes an amazing family and extended network to support medical recovery. But it's so clear that they have that support and they will make their way back up the Y mountain.
I'm so happy for Stephanie and Christian. And you all. The kids will have their parents nearby and their daddy in the house! Ah Courtney and Chup and family....i love you all. God bless you.
Stephanie truly has changed the world. Such goodness. I can't imagine how many other women across the country, across the globe, are wandering around each day thinking about her, praying for all of you, and finding a bit more joy in their children, their husbands, their sisters... just like I've done since I first heard the story. I can't even begin to describe or explain how profoundly your family has affected my life. Your words have turned a tragic event into such a positive, life-changing experience for so many people out there, Courtney. You've changed the world too, you know.
beautiful story. How funny that nienie is shy... I never would have guessed with the concealed weapons permit, the confrontation with the man hiking the Y, or her openness on her blog. She is truely amazing. I am so happy she is surrounded by family.
Oh CJane...I agree, she definitely can write. I can't even begin to say how truly inspired I am by your entire family. You and your sisters have made me a better mommy, sister, wife and daughter. There is absolutely NO studpidity - only love and passion for family. I am so happy for you Stephanie...you are home to your family and soon will be making them dinner just as you want to. Stay strong and positive - the light is shining through brighter than ever.
I just can't stop crying- I am so happy that she will be near you and her precious children and her Christian.
Please tell her (as I'm sure you will see her so much more now) how much we have come to love her and her little family. We want to respect her privacy but we also are immensely grateful for the different things she's brought into our lives- perspective, faith, hope, joy, inspiration....
And to the extended family- thank you. I know this road is far from being a dead end. There are miles to go but your example thus far has been stellar and I know that you will walk this at Stephanie's side. Incredible, remarkable people- thank you for blessing my life and so many others.
They do such a beautiful job writing! I had never thought of it in that way, that this proves that it is a good world full of good people. That is so true and that gives me comfort. I also wanted to say you are extraordinary, watching your family has helped me to learn the goals for my family, I want to build an extraordinary family. Thank you so much for your example Court. :) We love you and are so excited for all of you to be together soon! Please let me know if you need anything!
wow, that was beautiful. Should I be saving all those articles, or will they be included in the bound book someday? I'm so happy for stephanie to be back in her favorite place.
This is such an incredibly personal story but I am so grateful that the family is sharing it. I have been so inspired to be a better mother, wife, sister, and friend. Oh, and I am taking better care of myself too! Thanks for sharing and God bless you all!
This was a lovely update... Christian and Stephanie are an inspiration in their love and devotion to each other and yes, she has changed my life and in turn, the lives of my husband and children.
Wonderful story.....it always is with you Clarks/Nielsons. I am reminded of your post about the story of buying/finding your retro house. One more person moving in, one more piece to the puzzle that Heavenly Father knew so long ago.
I check the blog daily, but this is my first comment. I'm SO happy for your family that Stephanie and Christian are in Utah and that Stephanie is strong enough to be moved into rehab. But mostly, I am moved by the love...the love between this husband and wife, the love among your family members, and the love shared by the hundreds of thousands who care so deeply for people we don't even know and will probably never meet. This is such a testament to the power of God's grace shining through at ALL times. Thank you so much for sharing.
Her articles are seriously awesome. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us. My husband thinks I'm crazy (and a stalker) for reading about your fam, but it truly has changed lives. So thanks!
i LOVED that. it summed it all up didn't it? courtney, i'm so glad you told stephanie that she has changed the world. she really really has ..ahem missy, and so too have YOU!!! i hope we hear all about you guys for the rest of forever. SHE and YOU are the kind of celebrity idols we need (okay okay so i used the word idol, bad terminology in our mormon community...my pops would have a hernia) anyway, would not you agree world? yes. yes. give me more of the clark sisters, please.
I really connected with another blogger who said that she has struggled with feeling like a failure as a mother and wife. I was really struggling with this myself. Then I heard about your families situation and started reading your blogs. It is inspiring to me and it has truly helped me in ways that I cannot really describe. Both you and Stephanie are inspirations to me and I want to thank you for that.
I am so happy to hear that Stephanie and Christian are here in Utah! I will continue to pray for them and your family.
Thank you both for just being you. In being true and real, you have touched my heart.
When you wrote about Page buying Stephanie & Christian a home the first thing I thought of was my favorite TV show: "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition." Not saying that the home Page bought is crumbling or dangerous or whatever, but I wondered if Stephanie & Christian may have any special physical needs that would be made easier with a more custom made home for them, completely paid for by Extreme Home Makeover. The show's theme this year is all about helping heroes and I DEFINITELY think these two MORE than qualify as true heroes, in thousands of lives. Just a thought. Abc.com :)
She truly has changed the world..My world. Your whole family has. My faith has been strengthened just by reading about all of yours. I truly LOVE you all (may sound weird coming from someone you have never met but it is true).
"I said, 'Steph, you go ahead and feel stupid right now, but one day you're going to realize how you changed the world and you won't feel stupid anymore.' " Very well said. Could anyone even have imagined how a cheerleader from little ole Provo Utah could have changed so many lives with such a profound effect. That goes for the rest of you also. Thank you for sharing.
The healing that occurs in the presence of unconditional love is miraculous. I especially appreciate how Christian sees their future as being good. It will be different than anyone would have expected, but it can be just as wonderful in its own way.
As someone who has a special needs child, I have read "Welcome to Holland" several times. The basic premise is that you plan for one life, but then you receive another. It has its own beauty and challenges and, while it wasn't what you expected or would have wanted, it can still be lovely. A new normal.
We are all blessed to witness a miracle, because the love we get a glimpse of is a miracle in itself. Thank you for letting us be a part of that.
As always, your family remains in our prayers (and on the DC temple rolls).
Simply beautiful. Some friends of mine were just talking today about how scary it can be to raise our children in this world. Then, I read Christian's words about the many, many good people and his faith in humanity. He is right! His is the more hopeful, faithful attitude. Thank you...Again!
God bless you and your family! If you never posted again we would all know the ending to this story will be so very sweet and happy. Thank you so much for sharing this journey, through all the ups and downs, because you truly showed the resilence of weathering the storm and the effect faith and positive attitudes and HOPE have!! How beautiful!
...and one last thing. I keep reading about how blessed Stephanie is to have Christian and her sisters and family. That's definitely true. But they are also blessed to have HER. :-)
And we are blessed to be able to peek inside this precious family's life.
Do you remember the general conference talk by Elder Bednar about "Tender Mercies"? I think it is a tender mercy that Christian will be able to know what Stephanie is going through so he can help her. What an incredible blessing Christian is for Stephanie during this trial.
I'm praying for you and your family more now than ever. Thank you for sharing the great news!
I love all the positive updates on Nie, your lives are more entwined than ever- what a blessing for both of you. Once again, sobbed my way through the AZ Rep article. I love your family!
The quilts are posted if the kids want something fun to look forward to while they wait for the next progression, mama at home! www.quilt4nie.blogspot.com
Jaimee Rose is such a fantastic writer, I used to read her all the time in the supplement yes. Stephanie's recovery should be by leaps and bounds now that she is back home with the family and much closer to her kids. God is great.
I have been reading yours and Stephanie's blogs since I heard about the accident on the Today Show months ago. I just want to say how much you guys have changed the way that I view my life and the world around me. Such amazing people. Strong. Huge hearts. Humor and humility. You are an inspiration and an example of how we all should live our lives.
So happy to see that Stephanie and Christian are both recovering well and are back home where you can all mug on them and help them heal. You and your family are so amazing and inspiring. Thank you for keeping us all updated.
Stephanie, I'm so proud of your will to live. I have come to love your beautiful children here in Provo and I'm grateful for the chance I have had to get to know them. They are so well behaved and adorable. They are a reflection of what you and Christian have done for them and what they have learned from you. You are a wonderful mother and wife. You have inspired so many women to live life more fully and with gratitude; enjoying their roles as mothers. My girls and I love you so much. We continue to pray for you. Your little ones need you , your sweet husband needs you and your sweet mother needs you. Keep up your fight. We're so grateful for your progress and to have you "home" in Utah again. I wish I could hug you. Know that I love you. Keep up the fight. You're always in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers! Love Aunt Lisa
THat was such an enlightening piece. To share that much personal information was a brave and gracious thing to do. Thank you. Thank you courtney for taking another nielson into your home you are amazing.Steph needs to know how much we all care and as for the word stupid it doesn't even exist in the many words i would use to describe her- beautiful,loving,thankful,hard working,generous,caring,gracious to mention a few but never the S..... word. With christian's care and devotion and being by her side literally every step of the way steph will take her steps guided by the man that her loves her utterly and completely. Just as we all love you! All my love Karan
Stop short - take a moment to wipe away a shameful tear, smile, breathe, and count my blessings. You all did it again. Great to hear talk of their future, it's a magical moment. t.x
It's very well written. If there is one thing that I take from both your & Stephanie's blogs, it is to enjoy the moments, which you're family does so well. Thank you for sharing your family's beautiful moments!
Courtney, you are a dear soul. To take in your nieces and nephews and to love them as your own is a gift your sister is probably so grateful for. People have been inspired by Stephanie including me but I want you to know how much YOU have inspired me...thanks for showing us all how to love!
I'm so excited for your family! How much better this will be for you to have her closer to her family and her children. I was so sad to hear that Stephanie feels stupid. Here she lays with such medical isues and in probably alot of pain, but yet worries for everyone else. Please let her know that her joy for life and spontaneity is what I probably think Christian was drawn to. If we live our life in fear than we cannot enjoy all the splendor that God has provided us. I'm sure to be up in the air, to see the beauty of god's green earth that fateful day, is probably something that might jog her memory into not feeling stupid. How was she to know. Walking out of the house everyday in this wicked world can be a "stupid" thing, but it won't stop me from being the person that god meant for me to be. Please tell Stephanie that no one thinks she's stupid, but on the contrary, wishes we had her kind of zeal for life.
Wow...how anyone can read that and have a dry eye is beyond me. Such a moving piece. I'm so happy htat Stephanie and Christian are in Utah, it's a great releif. Their life story is an amazing one full of love, hope, faith and family. Wow.
thank you for all the updates... that article was beautiful.. you and your family are inspiration to all. It takes amazing women to do what you do everyday. U guys are trully blessed to have eachother. I will continue to keep you guys in my prayers.. always!
That was a wonderful article. I feel so happy and content knowing she is on her way to recovery. I know your family will provide such love and comfort to her.
I can tell what a good sister you are, not just by the love and care you offer her children, but by your response to her when she said she felt stupid.
Instead of invalidating her feelings with all the reasons she should not feel stupid (and they could definitely go on into the millions) you let her keep the feeling but offered her a different perspective - THAT's what sisters are for (can anyone ever really talk you out of a feeling?). I could just picture mine saying something like that to me.
I have shared your story with my girls in an attempt to teach them the meaning of the word "sister".
what a beautiful family all of you are! thank you for sharing this journey with us. although many of us have never met you, we have been strengthened and enlightened. my life has changed for the better because of you. my prayers and thoughts are constantly with all of you. may you feel the Lord's strength in all and stay strong. we pray for you and love you, diana, arizona
Ms. Rose has done a beautiful job chronicling your story.
Also, I watched the video again in the upper right hand corner. It's funny how familiar your voice has become and how familiar your face and the faces of your sisters are. I was sort of surprised at the warmth that trickled through, as though you are all dear friends or family and it was so good to hear your voice again. And I am certain I am not the only one who feels that way.
Also, is there a new address where we can send Christmas cards and such for Stephanie's new hospital room?
Thank you for posting this update! I'm so happy that Steph is close to her family and kids now. And how lucky for Christian to be living with you. This story has had a beautifully happy ending - miraculous!!
Thank you for keeping us all updated. I loved that story, it was written just perfectly and I cried my way through the whole thing! I'm so glad that things are on the up hill and I look forward to hearing more good news.
That was beautiful. The story is one that is amazing, not just Stephanie and Christian, but you, your sweet husband and baby, your parents, and sisters, brothers, etc. You are all amazing. thanks for the inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your family with so many of us. We are praying for you all. My life is richer and I'm so changed by Stephanie and Christian strength.
WOW - I am so happy that christian will be able to stay with you and the kids. This is a great article and I just keep reading it. I can't imagine how Stephanie feels but do hope she knows that she HAS made a world of difference because of her story. I am sure we all have a time where we wish we made a different choice but our choices build our lives for the good or bad, but in the end she fought so hard to stay with her children and family and that in itself is something to behold.
The story that your telling, that Jamie Rose is telling and the intimate details that your sharing with the world shows us all how we can come together for each other. How inspiring! It gives me faith in humanity again. Thank you!
I can't believe they are finally back home! How exciting. It sounds like nienie is making huge strides in her recovery. The children must be so excited.
I am amazed by the courage your family has. The love and devotion to each other is amazing Stephanie and Christian are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I hate to hear about Stephanie's anxieties because I don't want her to have to go through more than she already has.
This comment was posted on 11/20, and I absolutely could not agree more. I have been inspired to become a better friend, sister, daughter and girlfriend, through the story of Nie and Christian. My heart is always with your extraordinary family.
Love, Alisa
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Katie said... Stephanie truly has changed the world. Such goodness. I can't imagine how many other women across the country, across the globe, are wandering around each day thinking about her, praying for all of you, and finding a bit more joy in their children, their husbands, their sisters... just like I've done since I first heard the story. I can't even begin to describe or explain how profoundly your family has affected my life. Your words have turned a tragic event into such a positive, life-changing experience for so many people out there, Courtney. You've changed the world too, you know.
I am so glad to hear that Steph is doing well. It warms my heart! Quick question that maybe you know the answer to...why is it that her Gracie J. Brunswick blog has been set to private? Those were some of my favorite posts, and I was really wanting to read a few of them the other day, and I couldn't view it. I'm sure there is a good reason, as always, but I just love her so much and feel that she is a friend (even though I've never met her) and it comforts me to read her stories (early and recent).
Thanks for keeping us so greatly updated. You are such a great human for continuing to tell her story!
What a great thing to have them back in Utah! Thanks for sharing the link with us. I was, as I often am when I leave this blog, choked up and teary eyed.
Loved this article and it had me tearful once again. Every bit of your family's story has helped me through my own difficulties over the last year. Thank you, thank you for the inspiration all along the way.
I was at a girls get together the other night and we started talking about CJane and the NieNie dialogues. Someone not apart of the blogging world said "they're like blogging celebrities aren't they?" I had to laugh as I realized how right she was. I have felt almost intrusive at times reading about these people's lives who don't even know me. At the same time, I realized that I've been drawn to this writing, this story, because of all the beautiful lessons that are taught. Yes, some days as a mom and a wife can be frusterating and some days are beautiful, but we can all strive to live the fairytale. We can all be a little better, laugh a little more, and find joy in the little unique things of our world. Thank you for carrying on the fairytale and sharing the not so fairytale-like moments with such beautiful faith and hope. Thank you...
I feel so envious of the love that your family has for each other..a sister that buys Stephanie and Christian a house, another sister that cares and loves their 4 children, parents that support them. I wish I could be like that, and with the examples that Courtney lets us peek in their lives, I will be a more loving parent, partner and person
You all made me believe again in the power of prayers and the glory of the Lord. And now I'm praying again, after a long time. You're always on my prayers.
How wonderful that Stephanie is a person that has lived her life in such a way that all these people (thousands by now, I would imagine!) want to emulate her asa wife and mother. That is a testament to what a wondeful person she is! I feel happy for her and for you and your family and am glad that the healing process is coming along. I wish you all the best of everything!
courtney, you are all about hope, and faith. thank you for showing the world that you can help others while they are healing, i hope for you that you are doing well. it's not all roses, the day to day. when i first came across c jane, and nienie i read some, i come back when i need to be uplifted to endure my own struggles. thank you. you all are in our prayers. i am healing a bit at a time, thankful for the inspired stories of others who are out there with their struggles.
That was a nicely written article and I'm so glad that Stephanie is back in Utah! She is lucky to have such wonderful family (especially you, Courtney) to care for her needs and her most important assets, her children!
I wanted to let you know that you and ALL of your family are in my family and friends' thoughts and prayers!! I read the AZ Republic article that you posted last night and am super excited that Stephanie is able to get to Utah so quickly. Especially in time for the holidays.
My hubby, daughter and I stopped by Habit Salon in Mesa this morning, it was awesome!!
You can visit our blog at www.amandawest.blogspot.com to see a few pictures!!
Take care, happy holidays and much love to you and your huge family of wonderful people.
Wow. This is really random. I've been following the story of your sister's family a little in the Republic. I only recently discovered that they lived in the stake next to ours, and to check her and your blogs (been reading the paper, not following the internet). As I was looking at the pictures of your darling family, I thought I recognized your husband. So, I began sliding through your blog, only glancing at text and trying to find any more pictures of him. I became more and more sure, but when I discovered the entries and pictures of "Twin" (as only a native knows it), and seeing the pictures of his family did I confirm my guess. I grew up in the same ward, attended Sunday School taught by his dad, Merrie Miss taught by his mom, learned to sing from the same revered Mr. Smack. I even played the piano at his sister's funeral. In fact, he and my brother are the same age, went on the same scout trips (remember Chad being dragged behind my dad's horse?), and dated in the same circles. I would hate to compromise privacy and identity, but I was truly happy to see how small this world really is. Best of luck, and now your struggle seems even closer to me. You and yours are in my prayers.
Thank you so so much for the link to the story. I love hearing the intimate details. It's crazy how much I think about Stephanie, Christian and their kids. I feel so so bad for them. But, I know they will all be ok in the end-- Because, Stephanie is strong, optimistic, and they have the gospel. But not just HAVE the gospel, but have it "written in their hearts."
I have to dido this one: lundgrenville said... Yes-she has changed the world...including mine. President Hinkley said "If you save one girl...you save generations" Thank you Stephanie!
OK...so are you spending all your time at the Rehab center with your sister? {smiling} I mean...I don't blame you {still smiling}...but really do miss your posts {a little less smiling}!
Hope all is going well and you and your family and the kids and Christian and Stephanie are all enjoying being so close now.
Hope to hear from you soon....but again...I can't blame you!!!
Thank you so much for keeping us updated! I often think about Stephanie and wonder how she's doing. I've never met her, I only know who she is through her blog (I found it after her plane crash). And I did a fundraiser to help raise money for her, which was such an amazing experience, to see how many people wanted to help. She seems like an amazing person. So, thanks again for the updates!
Stephanie and her family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers... I'm so happy that she was able to make the trip to Utah to be closer to her family while she recovers. Reading Nie's blog has truly brought me a different (better) outlook on my own life... and for that,I am very grateful- she such an inspiration... I hope the best for her and you all.
Thank you Courtney for the updates, I have been gone for 4 days, and no where near a computer. Now for catch up time!!! I am thrilled to hear they are going home! They are amazing! Hugs and prayers from CA
167 Pieces of Opinion:
Thank you for all the updates. I like many millions really enjoy smiling, giggling and crying while reading your blog. You have a beautiful family.
that was SO BEAUTIFUL. ohmygoodness, i can't even begin to say how much i loved that and why. Christian is my hero and i'm so happy that he'll be moving in with you for the time being. thank you all so much. oh Stephanie! please dont feel stupid. we are so blessed to know this story and we are so blessed to be changed by this story. thank you times infinity!
I'm so happy that Stephanie and Christian are in Utah! Thanks for the updates, Courtney, and for taking care of the children, your home, your husband, the blogs, your young women, etc . . . You're amazing and I'm so glad I know you and can read your inspiring words.
Yes-she has changed the world...including mine. President Hinkley said "If you save one girl...you save generations"
Thank you Stephanie!
I agree. She does a great job telling the story, but I think you could do it even better Courtney. :)
Your family is always in my prayers, and I am very glad to hear that Stephanie and Christian are closer to you now...logistically.
Beautifully written and it absolutely demonstrates the love and faith shared by your family.
How beautiful!
Amazing! She makes you fall in love with Stephanie and Christian all over again. They are still in my prayers...
Amazing story! Brought tears to my eyes, again! Stephanie & Christian are amazing and I pray for her physical, emotional, and spiritual healing!!
I pray she will realize how she has touched so many lives and made others want to be better mothers, wifes, daughters etc. You too! Your mom raised wonderful people!!
It pays to have OCD - I am the first to comment? crazy. Well, AZ is not the same without Stephanie! Congratulations. Thank you for giving us such a beautiful testimony builder!
I forgot how beautifully she can tell I story. I know this is a sad situation but Stephanie can get through this because of you, your family and Christian's family. You are all such remarkable people. Prayers to all of you......
More happy tears as I read as the journey continues.
May your sister find peace in her spirit as well the healing of her body.
Hugs to all the little ones.
I heard about your Blog awhile back and found myself reading from the beginning about your family and what you've been through. What a fantastic show of love and devotion you've shared with everyone. Thank you for opening up your life to us.
Congratulations to Stephanie and Christian on their latest progress! What a great Holiday present to all of you.
AWESOME!!! I called my sister and told her to RUN, don't walk to your computer and read this right now! I am so happy for you all!
That was a beautiful article. She is such a great writer, but then again she has such great people to write about. I hope that she keeps writing such sweet articles about them. I hope that all is well in Utah. We pray for them and all your family often.
Thank you for sharing your family's story. I know you're aware of how many people truly care about Stephanie, Christian, their children and extended family, but all of us "strangers" have been changed and stretched and forever set on different paths because of you all. Thank you, thank you!
Wow....
what a beautifully written article !! i am so excited for them to be closer to all of you .. i love the utah mountains .. i know she will do so well .. sending prayers still
jenn and famun
That is an amazing article. Jaimee Rose has a real talent for telling this story.
She's a wonderful journalist, and story weaver. I am praying, hoping and wishing for the best for all of you. : )
i. love. it. *tears streaming down face*
boy we've prayed for this for so long. and what a GREAT article. you are all so beautiful and SO STRONG. true inspirations for being great women, mothers, and sisters alike.
you are all so loved...all of you.
is it possible to love all of you anymore than i do?!?!
so happy that the next part of this story/journey(post hospital) is beginning...
take good care (all of you) -
xo, jenny
That was beautiful. Christian is the new Edward. I don't know how anyone could read that and not fall in love with him. I'm so glad Nie Nie has him! (And you, of course.)
That Jamiee Rose - she can drag out the tears.
I never cease to be amazed at the strength of all involved in this journey. You are all truly inspiring...thanks.
Hooray for Stephanie! I'm so happy to hear of her progress and that she'll be in Utah with her family. May she continue to heal in every way.
I can hardly contain my tears, of both happiness and sadness. I am sad because she is fearful of what to come, but I am so happy she is going home to Utah to be with her family.
You all have so much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. You will be in my heart, like always, on Thanksgiving. I have become a better person because of you. ~Kimberly in Ohio
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us. You have a beautiful family and are so blessed to have such a closeness. Your family has blessed my life and family. Thank you. Much love and prayers to you.
christian, may we all learn to be more like you and stephanie. and not just in which motorcycles we drive. (already taken care of that)
-scott
That was just lovely. What wonderful and exciting things have happened this week for your family. Tell Stephanie WELCOME HOME!
Amazing. Just amazing. And let me point out the inspiration that Christian brings - that of being a partner of unconditional love and support. He is a phenomenal human being and one that continues to inspire me in his devotion and steadfastness. Thank you!
I read the story this a.m. in the AZ. Republic, great story. You all are amazing individuals, tell Stephanie and Christian they are beautiful with a beautiful family.
I look so forward to hearing on their progress.
Take care,
Ladybug
Fantastic and inspirational...
Lynne O.
Illinois
Beautiful update and beautiful family! the strenght and humility amaze and touch me everyday. your words to your sister are simple and beautiful.. thank you so much for keeping us posted... my throat is achinig with unshed tears, but i have a very happy smile to go with it!
misty CO
I am changed by your sisters story. I am changed by your families faith and love. I am mostly inspired to worry more about what I give in life and care less about what the total of what I ever receive is. To love is truly gift enough. Godspeed wonderful healing to both Christian and Stephanie.
www.shishnit.org
i love what ashley said above, he IS the new edward!! he is strenght in every sense of the word.
I am so excited for them! My sisiter went out to dinner with one of Christians older sisters and she told my sister that the doctors were completely shocked and amazed at Stephanies healing!! I have told my husband all along that she will make it through this and she will amaze people over and over!! She just seems so strong and positive, there is something about her, she was meant to be heard and known all around the world for a huge reason...probably many reasons,she has changed so many peoples view on life including mine!! She and Christian are such great examples! It's funny that she would ever feel stupid because she is soooo the opposite...everything happens for a reason and her of all people will find the positive out of all of this for sure! Time heals, especially with her husband and family by her side!! Courtney, you and you're family are amazing and I'm so glad the world gets to see how great and important Family and faith is by reading your blog, the world needs to see this and you're family is a perfect example!!
Thank you for always keeping us posted. Everyday I check for updates. They always make me smile-somedays cry but it's always worth it. You're all in my prayers.
that is so eye-opening.. that makes Christian and Stephanie seem so much more "real" to me.
I sometimes (often, actually??) feel like a failure as a wife and mother. I'm too easily frustrated. Too quick to impatience. Too easily disappointed. Too selfish.
And really, nobody (hopefully) but me really knows that I feel that way.
I loved reading NieNie before because I felt like she gave me something to aspire to. I felt like---- "here she is, this young woman with 4 kids, and you KNOW they have to drive her crazy sometimes. But look how she is showing her life. Look at the memories her kids will remember. I want to be more like THAT."
It really touches me that she said "I feel stupid." I just want to hug her. Stephanie--- if you read this sometime, thank you. Thank you for teaching me how to be a better wife and mother. Thank you. And thank you for allowing this intensely personal event in your life be yet another example, even though it might make you feel stupid and shy. It wasn't your fault.
Thank you so much.
I laughed out loud when Ashley referred to Christian as the new Edward!! I TOTALLY AGREE!!! Thank you so much for the inspiration and I look forward to your posts every day :)
Get well soon Steph and Christian!!
I'm so happy she's coming "home" to heal. Although I know her home is wherever her husband is, having the help of her sisters and parents will ease much of her burden.
It's really surreal that she's awake and moving and talking and reacting. For so long she was a sleeping beauty. I marvel at her/your/their strength and continue to have all of you in my thoughts and prayers. You both have been such a force for good in the blogging world and now just the plain ol' world.
That was beautiful - it brought instant tears to my eyes! Your family is amazing to have shared this with everyone when it could have so easily been kept private. Thank you for sharing your pain, and your strength, your joys, and your testimony. You have had such an amazing impact on so many people. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I'm so glad to see that Stephanie and Christian are in UT with you all. AZ will miss her but she is where she needs to be.
Amazing.... the way each update captures your soul and makes you realize how each moment of life should be cherished. I wish you and your family the very best.
She IS a BEAUTIFUL writer!
SO happy to hear you all are together again in Utah! Such wonderful news!
that Christian is adorably smitten and so in love with your sis.
It's inspiring.
He's also wise, loyal & has amazing perspective.
Loved it.
What a great article!! It is so informative and touching at the same time...another tear jerker...thanks for sharing your lives with us all.
oh that was wonderful. so wonderful to read. poor baby, her arms hurt...that was hard to read, about the pain. i worry about her hurting too much. but i totally believe that being closer to you all with lessen her pain, actually and physically lessen it. her brain will respond to the safety and love being so close.
christian is so sweet. you all are love personified.
xo
maggie may
Christian is a good man! I love how he is so kind and thoughtful about Stephanie’s needs and feelings. They are such an adorable couple.
Perfect for each other. We pray for a smooth transition into this new phase.
Many blessing.
I loved the article. Thank you for posting it! I'm so happy that Stephanie and Christian are up in Utah now with her family. It makes me so happy that things will and are getting better. Good luck with everything. Tell them good luck with everything. I think about them everyday and pray for them always. Thank you so much for the updates. I check your blog so often to see how everything is going. Bless them and your family!
"Live your life so that those you know you but don't know HIM, will want to know HIM because they know you."
I don't know who said that but I think of it every time I read about your family and all they are going through. I am so happy for Christian and Stephanie and excited their children get them back! Thank you for your example and your words. You are a strengh to us all.
What a heartwarming story--ty Jaimee Rose! Nie and Christian, you don't know me but I want to remind you that although your childrens lives HAVE been changed and will continue to change, that is NOT your fault! We don't know why bad things happen but we DO know that God can make something good out of them. And He has and continues to do so--even for your precious children. They've been sheltered and nurtured and allowed to feel their feelings too. I hope you will allow yourselves to do the grieving you have to do and then move forward--as I KNOW you will! Christian, you are a true gentleman....a Godly man. Stephanie is so blessed to have you. I know it must be very hard for you too and I pray that you will continue to stand strong as you both heal and reunite as a family. Courtney, as always, you are AWESOME--as is the whole family! I loved it when you told Nie that she can "feel stupid" now but that she has brought about change for so many people she doesn't even know. May you all be richly blessed! Love, Lori
She did such a beautiful job! I'm so happy for you, for Christian and Stephanie's kids to have their parents close by.. It's good that they are moving to Utah to be close to family. My husband runs a rehab center in CA. I know how much work is ahead for Stephanie, but I know she will do great! She's got so many cheerleaders! Thanks for all you do to keep strangers like me updated on such a wonderful family!
That video was beautifully done and it touches my heart!
It is so comforting to hear their thoughts, even if indirectly through someone else.
I hope so much for them, for your whole family!
Hugs and prayers
Oh, SO beautiful!
I race home from work each day to
~Check on Steph...faithfully awaiting nothing but bittersweet news & through my smiles & tears I just pray she knows how many lives she has changed
~to hear the precious daily happenings of an amazing woman & her compassion & Christlike love she shares with her sisters angel children
~to be inspired, to be reminded of life's greatest blessings, to be more grateful
~to be touched....forever!
She is a wonderful story teller and like Christian said - you are an extraordinary family. I'm still praying for all of you and really thank you for reminding me of my real purpose. Who knows where I would be without you and Nie's story telling.
I really hope they make a movie or something to touch people outside of the blogging community. Your family's faith and love really does prove that this world is good. It really is.
Thank you and hugs!
christian is right.
extraordinary people. all of you.
thoughts and prayers continue to be with you...
Amazing. Your home is now filled with even more love. You are truly blessed and such a blessing to all of us.
I am so happy that they are going to be in Utah, closer to their children! I believe that will help recovery so much! I am so touched by your amazing family & wonder when all these stories & updates will stop bringing me to tears!
Another beautiful article.
Another beautiful example of love, family and strength.
You are a wonderful person, Courtney. I hope I'm half as wonderful to my sister as you are to yours.
Wow. WOW. To be loved like that...
Such a beautiful article. I am also happy to hear that the family is back in UT again so that you can all see each other more often. You are all in our positive thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your wonderful examples and beautiful lives.
oh what a beautifully writen story/update. I love, love, love reading updates on how you are all going, espcialy hearing that Stephanie is improving daily.
And to now be back home in her hometown surrounded by all those that love her so dearly....
What a beautiful article. I love everything that she has written--both the sad and the beautiful. What a testament to love Stephanie and Christian are, and both families (parents, sisters, brothers, children--everyone!) as well! Our lives have all been blessed by watching this journey and praying for you all.
It's wonderful that Stephanie and Christian are back in Utah. I watched and helped a friend make his way back from a traumatic brain injury several years ago, and Christian is right that it takes an amazing family and extended network to support medical recovery. But it's so clear that they have that support and they will make their way back up the Y mountain.
I'm so happy for Stephanie and Christian. And you all. The kids will have their parents nearby and their daddy in the house! Ah Courtney and Chup and family....i love you all. God bless you.
jeannie
Stephanie truly has changed the world. Such goodness. I can't imagine how many other women across the country, across the globe, are wandering around each day thinking about her, praying for all of you, and finding a bit more joy in their children, their husbands, their sisters... just like I've done since I first heard the story. I can't even begin to describe or explain how profoundly your family has affected my life. Your words have turned a tragic event into such a positive, life-changing experience for so many people out there, Courtney. You've changed the world too, you know.
beautiful story. How funny that nienie is shy... I never would have guessed with the concealed weapons permit, the confrontation with the man hiking the Y, or her openness on her blog. She is truely amazing. I am so happy she is surrounded by family.
Oh CJane...I agree, she definitely can write. I can't even begin to say how truly inspired I am by your entire family. You and your sisters have made me a better mommy, sister, wife and daughter. There is absolutely NO studpidity - only love and passion for family. I am so happy for you Stephanie...you are home to your family and soon will be making them dinner just as you want to. Stay strong and positive - the light is shining through brighter than ever.
I just can't stop crying- I am so happy that she will be near you and her precious children and her Christian.
Please tell her (as I'm sure you will see her so much more now) how much we have come to love her and her little family. We want to respect her privacy but we also are immensely grateful for the different things she's brought into our lives- perspective, faith, hope, joy, inspiration....
And to the extended family- thank you. I know this road is far from being a dead end. There are miles to go but your example thus far has been stellar and I know that you will walk this at Stephanie's side. Incredible, remarkable people- thank you for blessing my life and so many others.
They do such a beautiful job writing! I had never thought of it in that way, that this proves that it is a good world full of good people. That is so true and that gives me comfort. I also wanted to say you are extraordinary, watching your family has helped me to learn the goals for my family, I want to build an extraordinary family. Thank you so much for your example Court. :) We love you and are so excited for all of you to be together soon! Please let me know if you need anything!
wow, that was beautiful. Should I be saving all those articles, or will they be included in the bound book someday? I'm so happy for stephanie to be back in her favorite place.
This is such an incredibly personal story but I am so grateful that the family is sharing it. I have been so inspired to be a better mother, wife, sister, and friend. Oh, and I am taking better care of myself too! Thanks for sharing and God bless you all!
This was a lovely update... Christian and Stephanie are an inspiration in their love and devotion to each other and yes, she has changed my life and in turn, the lives of my husband and children.
I'll never be able to thank her enough.
AMAZING!!! I cried tears of happiness through the whole interview. Stephanie is STRONG and a survivor! Your family is wonderful.
Wonderful story.....it always is with you Clarks/Nielsons.
I am reminded of your post about the story of buying/finding your retro house.
One more person moving in, one more piece to the puzzle that Heavenly Father knew so long ago.
What a love story.
God is good. Prayer can move mountains (or at least move Stephanie to them!)
love to you all and GO STEPH GO!
And a new chapter begins....Beautiful.
I check the blog daily, but this is my first comment. I'm SO happy for your family that Stephanie and Christian are in Utah and that Stephanie is strong enough to be moved into rehab. But mostly, I am moved by the love...the love between this husband and wife, the love among your family members, and the love shared by the hundreds of thousands who care so deeply for people we don't even know and will probably never meet. This is such a testament to the power of God's grace shining through at ALL times. Thank you so much for sharing.
Her articles are seriously awesome. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us. My husband thinks I'm crazy (and a stalker) for reading about your fam, but it truly has changed lives. So thanks!
Beautifully written. You're so lucky to have the family that you do. Stephanie and Christian are lucky.
i LOVED that. it summed it all up didn't it? courtney, i'm so glad you told stephanie that she has changed the world. she really really has ..ahem missy, and so too have YOU!!! i hope we hear all about you guys for the rest of forever. SHE and YOU are the kind of celebrity idols we need (okay okay so i used the word idol, bad terminology in our mormon community...my pops would have a hernia)
anyway, would not you agree world?
yes. yes. give me more of the clark sisters, please.
I really connected with another blogger who said that she has struggled with feeling like a failure as a mother and wife. I was really struggling with this myself. Then I heard about your families situation and started reading your blogs. It is inspiring to me and it has truly helped me in ways that I cannot really describe. Both you and Stephanie are inspirations to me and I want to thank you for that.
I am so happy to hear that Stephanie and Christian are here in Utah! I will continue to pray for them and your family.
Thank you both for just being you. In being true and real, you have touched my heart.
When you wrote about Page buying Stephanie & Christian a home the first thing I thought of was my favorite TV show: "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition." Not saying that the home Page bought is crumbling or dangerous or whatever, but I wondered if Stephanie & Christian may have any special physical needs that would be made easier with a more custom made home for them, completely paid for by Extreme Home Makeover. The show's theme this year is all about helping heroes and I DEFINITELY think these two MORE than qualify as true heroes, in thousands of lives. Just a thought. Abc.com :)
You should be very proud of your family and yourself. Actually your Mom and Dad because they raised some great kids. And we have a great GOD.
She truly has changed the world..My world. Your whole family has. My faith has been strengthened just by reading about all of yours. I truly LOVE you all (may sound weird coming from someone you have never met but it is true).
"I said, 'Steph, you go ahead and feel stupid right now, but one day you're going to realize how you changed the world and you won't feel stupid anymore.' "
Very well said. Could anyone even have imagined how a cheerleader from little ole Provo Utah could have changed so many lives with such a profound effect. That goes for the rest of you also. Thank you for sharing.
Definitely a gift of words! So excited for all of you to have them so close.
Have a wonderfully blessed day!
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Words are so inadequate, for the love that flows from this story! God continues His blessings upon you, and yes "us" such great things are happening!
The healing that occurs in the presence of unconditional love is miraculous. I especially appreciate how Christian sees their future as being good. It will be different than anyone would have expected, but it can be just as wonderful in its own way.
As someone who has a special needs child, I have read "Welcome to Holland" several times. The basic premise is that you plan for one life, but then you receive another. It has its own beauty and challenges and, while it wasn't what you expected or would have wanted, it can still be lovely. A new normal.
We are all blessed to witness a miracle, because the love we get a glimpse of is a miracle in itself. Thank you for letting us be a part of that.
As always, your family remains in our prayers (and on the DC temple rolls).
Simply beautiful. Some friends of mine were just talking today about how scary it can be to raise our children in this world. Then, I read Christian's words about the many, many good people and his faith in humanity. He is right! His is the more hopeful, faithful attitude. Thank you...Again!
God bless you and your family! If you never posted again we would all know the ending to this story will be so very sweet and happy. Thank you so much for sharing this journey, through all the ups and downs, because you truly showed the resilence of weathering the storm and the effect faith and positive attitudes and HOPE have!! How beautiful!
...and one last thing. I keep reading about how blessed Stephanie is to have Christian and her sisters and family. That's definitely true. But they are also blessed to have HER. :-)
And we are blessed to be able to peek inside this precious family's life.
OH my gosh.
I get it.
stephaNIE NIElson.
Wow.
What a beautiful article for such a beautiful family...all of you!
Thank you for continuing to share your story.
Continued prayers...
Do you remember the general conference talk by Elder Bednar about "Tender Mercies"? I think it is a tender mercy that Christian will be able to know what Stephanie is going through so he can help her. What an incredible blessing Christian is for Stephanie during this trial.
I'm praying for you and your family more now than ever. Thank you for sharing the great news!
I love all the positive updates on Nie, your lives are more entwined than ever- what a blessing for both of you. Once again, sobbed my way through the AZ Rep article. I love your family!
The quilts are posted if the kids want something fun to look forward to while they wait for the next progression, mama at home! www.quilt4nie.blogspot.com
I just love reading those articles. Thank you for the link!
That was beautifully written just like the last one. Their story has truly touched and changed so many lives.
Jaimee Rose is such a fantastic writer, I used to read her all the time in the supplement yes. Stephanie's recovery should be by leaps and bounds now that she is back home with the family and much closer to her kids. God is great.
Connie
I have been reading yours and Stephanie's blogs since I heard about the accident on the Today Show months ago. I just want to say how much you guys have changed the way that I view my life and the world around me. Such amazing people. Strong. Huge hearts. Humor and humility. You are an inspiration and an example of how we all should live our lives.
So happy to see that Stephanie and Christian are both recovering well and are back home where you can all mug on them and help them heal. You and your family are so amazing and inspiring. Thank you for keeping us all updated.
Stephanie and Christian's story HAS changed the world. At least this girl's world anyway.
Praying for strength and comfort for each of them as they continue their rehabilitation process.
She is an amazing story teller. It was nice to read.
Sooo...Darth Vader is living with you guys....lucky! Lucky for you and lucky for him!
Enjoy the journey....you all are amazing and continue to inspire and remind me to love my family more each day.
Stephanie,
I'm so proud of your will to live. I have come to love your beautiful children here in Provo and I'm grateful for the chance I have had to get to know them. They are so well behaved and adorable. They are a reflection of what you and Christian have done for them and what they have learned from you. You are a wonderful mother and wife. You have inspired so many women to live life more fully and with gratitude; enjoying their roles as mothers. My girls and I love you so much. We continue to pray for you. Your little ones need you , your sweet husband needs you and your sweet mother needs you. Keep up your fight. We're so grateful for your progress and to have you "home" in Utah again.
I wish I could hug you. Know that I love you. Keep up the fight.
You're always in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers!
Love Aunt Lisa
wonderful.
Wow!!! that leaves me speechless!!! What a wonderful article!!!
Nie HAS changed the world. Perfectly said.
I and thousands of others are better wives and mothers...creating countless heavens on earth, blessed children and husbands.
Thank you from the depths of my soul,
Leah
THat was such an enlightening piece.
To share that much personal information was a brave and gracious thing to do. Thank you.
Thank you courtney for taking another nielson into your home you are amazing.Steph needs to know how much we all care and as for the word stupid it doesn't even exist in the many words i would use to describe her- beautiful,loving,thankful,hard working,generous,caring,gracious to mention a few but never the S..... word.
With christian's care and devotion and being by her side literally every step of the way steph will take her steps guided by the man that her loves her utterly and completely. Just as we all love you!
All my love Karan
That was very beautifully written. Our love and prayers are still with your family.
Stop short - take a moment to wipe away a shameful tear, smile, breathe, and count my blessings.
You all did it again.
Great to hear talk of their future, it's a magical moment.
t.x
Wow, they have both come so far and together, side by side, they will succeed. Thank you for keeping us all updated. We love your family.
So beautiful...what a wonderful couple and wonderful family. I just don't even know what to say but that God is certainly in the midst.
Hugs,
LeAnn:)
It's very well written. If there is one thing that I take from both your & Stephanie's blogs, it is to enjoy the moments, which you're family does so well. Thank you for sharing your family's beautiful moments!
Courtney, you are a dear soul. To take in your nieces and nephews and to love them as your own is a gift your sister is probably so grateful for. People have been inspired by Stephanie including me but I want you to know how much YOU have inspired me...thanks for showing us all how to love!
I'm so excited for your family! How much better this will be for you to have her closer to her family and her children. I was so sad to hear that Stephanie feels stupid. Here she lays with such medical isues and in probably alot of pain, but yet worries for everyone else. Please let her know that her joy for life and spontaneity is what I probably think Christian was drawn to. If we live our life in fear than we cannot enjoy all the splendor that God has provided us. I'm sure to be up in the air, to see the beauty of god's green earth that fateful day, is probably something that might jog her memory into not feeling stupid. How was she to know. Walking out of the house everyday in this wicked world can be a "stupid" thing, but it won't stop me from being the person that god meant for me to be. Please tell Stephanie that no one thinks she's stupid, but on the contrary, wishes we had her kind of zeal for life.
Wow...how anyone can read that and have a dry eye is beyond me. Such a moving piece. I'm so happy htat Stephanie and Christian are in Utah, it's a great releif. Their life story is an amazing one full of love, hope, faith and family. Wow.
"one day you're going to realize how you changed the world and you won't feel stupid anymore."...SO TRUE!
So glad that Stephanie is back in Utah and around family.
The relationship between her and Christian is beautiful. They can get through anything.
Of course Christian will ensure her happiness. Anyone who read her blog for five seconds could have told you that! Great article...
That was such a beautiful story. Thank you for keeping us updated. And you do it in such a lovely way!!
A beautiful story teller indeed. Thanks for sharing!
Great article.....
That is beautiful.
I'm so happy that Stephanie & Christian are home.....in Utah.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
thank you for all the updates... that article was beautiful.. you and your family are inspiration to all. It takes amazing women to do what you do everyday. U guys are trully blessed to have eachother. I will continue to keep you guys in my prayers.. always!
That was a wonderful article. I feel so happy and content knowing she is on her way to recovery. I know your family will provide such love and comfort to her.
I can tell what a good sister you are, not just by the love and care you offer her children, but by your response to her when she said she felt stupid.
Instead of invalidating her feelings with all the reasons she should not feel stupid (and they could definitely go on into the millions) you let her keep the feeling but offered her a different perspective - THAT's what sisters are for (can anyone ever really talk you out of a feeling?). I could just picture mine saying something like that to me.
I have shared your story with my girls in an attempt to teach them the meaning of the word "sister".
what a beautiful family all of you are! thank you for sharing this journey with us. although many of us have never met you, we have been strengthened and enlightened. my life has changed for the better because of you. my prayers and thoughts are constantly with all of you. may you feel the Lord's strength in all and stay strong. we pray for you and love you,
diana, arizona
A truly beautiful article!
Ooof.
Ms. Rose has done a beautiful job chronicling your story.
Also, I watched the video again in the upper right hand corner. It's funny how familiar your voice has become and how familiar your face and the faces of your sisters are. I was sort of surprised at the warmth that trickled through, as though you are all dear friends or family and it was so good to hear your voice again. And I am certain I am not the only one who feels that way.
Also, is there a new address where we can send Christmas cards and such for Stephanie's new hospital room?
Thank you for posting this update! I'm so happy that Steph is close to her family and kids now. And how lucky for Christian to be living with you.
This story has had a beautifully happy ending - miraculous!!
Thank you for keeping us all updated. I loved that story, it was written just perfectly and I cried my way through the whole thing! I'm so glad that things are on the up hill and I look forward to hearing more good news.
beautiful. I too have been forever changed. Thank you.
That was beautiful. The story is one that is amazing, not just Stephanie and Christian, but you, your sweet husband and baby, your parents, and sisters, brothers, etc. You are all amazing. thanks for the inspiration.
Your whole family rocks!
Thank you for sharing your family with so many of us. We are praying for you all. My life is richer and I'm so changed by Stephanie and Christian strength.
WOW - I am so happy that christian will be able to stay with you and the kids. This is a great article and I just keep reading it. I can't imagine how Stephanie feels but do hope she knows that she HAS made a world of difference because of her story. I am sure we all have a time where we wish we made a different choice but our choices build our lives for the good or bad, but in the end she fought so hard to stay with her children and family and that in itself is something to behold.
The story that your telling, that Jamie Rose is telling and the intimate details that your sharing with the world shows us all how we can come together for each other. How inspiring! It gives me faith in humanity again. Thank you!
I can't believe they are finally back home! How exciting. It sounds like nienie is making huge strides in her recovery. The children must be so excited.
Beautiful!
I am amazed by the courage your family has. The love and devotion to each other is amazing Stephanie and Christian are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I hate to hear about Stephanie's anxieties because I don't want her to have to go through more than she already has.
This comment was posted on 11/20, and I absolutely could not agree more. I have been inspired to become a better friend, sister, daughter and girlfriend, through the story of Nie and Christian. My heart is always with your extraordinary family.
Love, Alisa
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Katie said...
Stephanie truly has changed the world. Such goodness. I can't imagine how many other women across the country, across the globe, are wandering around each day thinking about her, praying for all of you, and finding a bit more joy in their children, their husbands, their sisters... just like I've done since I first heard the story. I can't even begin to describe or explain how profoundly your family has affected my life. Your words have turned a tragic event into such a positive, life-changing experience for so many people out there, Courtney. You've changed the world too, you know.
I am so glad to hear that Steph is doing well. It warms my heart! Quick question that maybe you know the answer to...why is it that her Gracie J. Brunswick blog has been set to private? Those were some of my favorite posts, and I was really wanting to read a few of them the other day, and I couldn't view it. I'm sure there is a good reason, as always, but I just love her so much and feel that she is a friend (even though I've never met her) and it comforts me to read her stories (early and recent).
Thanks for keeping us so greatly updated. You are such a great human for continuing to tell her story!
~Kaylyn
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YES I have been waiting for another installation. Jaimee does such a beautiful job.
What a great thing to have them back in Utah! Thanks for sharing the link with us. I was, as I often am when I leave this blog, choked up and teary eyed.
Loved this article and it had me tearful once again. Every bit of your family's story has helped me through my own difficulties over the last year. Thank you, thank you for the inspiration all along the way.
I was at a girls get together the other night and we started talking about CJane and the NieNie dialogues. Someone not apart of the blogging world said "they're like blogging celebrities aren't they?" I had to laugh as I realized how right she was. I have felt almost intrusive at times reading about these people's lives who don't even know me. At the same time, I realized that I've been drawn to this writing, this story, because of all the beautiful lessons that are taught. Yes, some days as a mom and a wife can be frusterating and some days are beautiful, but we can all strive to live the fairytale. We can all be a little better, laugh a little more, and find joy in the little unique things of our world. Thank you for carrying on the fairytale and sharing the not so fairytale-like moments with such beautiful faith and hope. Thank you...
I feel so envious of the love that your family has for each other..a sister that buys Stephanie and Christian a house, another sister that cares and loves their 4 children, parents that support them. I wish I could be like that, and with the examples that Courtney lets us peek in their lives, I will be a more loving parent, partner and person
suzy
There is NOTHING better than being HOME!! Yay!
Well, she certainly has a beautiful story to tell!
You all made me believe again in the power of prayers and the glory of the Lord.
And now I'm praying again, after a long time. You're always on my prayers.
Thank you!
Caroline - Brazil
How wonderful that Stephanie is a person that has lived her life in such a way that all these people (thousands by now, I would imagine!) want to emulate her asa wife and mother. That is a testament to what a wondeful person she is! I feel happy for her and for you and your family and am glad that the healing process is coming along. I wish you all the best of everything!
just awesome. I hope I get to experience love like theirs someday. thanks for sharing your world with us. my prayers continue to be with you all.
courtney, you are all about hope, and faith. thank you for showing the world that you can help others while they are healing, i hope for you that you are doing well. it's not all roses, the day to day. when i first came across c jane, and nienie i read some, i come back when i need to be uplifted to endure my own struggles. thank you. you all are in our prayers. i am healing a bit at a time, thankful for the inspired stories of others who are out there with their struggles.
That was a nicely written article and I'm so glad that Stephanie is back in Utah! She is lucky to have such wonderful family (especially you, Courtney) to care for her needs and her most important assets, her children!
you go ahead and feel stupid right now, but one day you're going to realize how you changed the world and you won't feel stupid anymore.
can i say it again???
you go ahead and feel stupid right now, but one day you're going to realize how you changed the world and you won't feel stupid anymore.
you have each touched me and my little life. Thank you. sisters are a gift from our loving Father.
I wanted to let you know that you and ALL of your family are in my family and friends' thoughts and prayers!! I read the AZ Republic article that you posted last night and am super excited that Stephanie is able to get to Utah so quickly. Especially in time for the holidays.
My hubby, daughter and I stopped by Habit Salon in Mesa this morning, it was awesome!!
You can visit our blog at www.amandawest.blogspot.com to see a few pictures!!
Take care, happy holidays and much love to you and your huge family of wonderful people.
Wow. This is really random. I've been following the story of your sister's family a little in the Republic. I only recently discovered that they lived in the stake next to ours, and to check her and your blogs (been reading the paper, not following the internet). As I was looking at the pictures of your darling family, I thought I recognized your husband. So, I began sliding through your blog, only glancing at text and trying to find any more pictures of him. I became more and more sure, but when I discovered the entries and pictures of "Twin" (as only a native knows it), and seeing the pictures of his family did I confirm my guess. I grew up in the same ward, attended Sunday School taught by his dad, Merrie Miss taught by his mom, learned to sing from the same revered Mr. Smack. I even played the piano at his sister's funeral. In fact, he and my brother are the same age, went on the same scout trips (remember Chad being dragged behind my dad's horse?), and dated in the same circles. I would hate to compromise privacy and identity, but I was truly happy to see how small this world really is. Best of luck, and now your struggle seems even closer to me. You and yours are in my prayers.
Thank you so so much for the link to the story. I love hearing the intimate details. It's crazy how much I think about Stephanie, Christian and their kids. I feel so so bad for them. But, I know they will all be ok in the end-- Because, Stephanie is strong, optimistic, and they have the gospel. But not just HAVE the gospel, but have it "written in their hearts."
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Yes-she has changed the world...including mine. President Hinkley said "If you save one girl...you save generations"
Thank you Stephanie!
A very happy Thanksgiving wish to you and your family! Thanks for sharing your heart! Our prayers are with you and you family every day!
Sending hugs, kisses, prayers and tears from Kansas for all of you-You are all BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE! God Bless!
OK...so are you spending all your time at the Rehab center with your sister? {smiling} I mean...I don't blame you {still smiling}...but really do miss your posts {a little less smiling}!
Hope all is going well and you and your family and the kids and Christian and Stephanie are all enjoying being so close now.
Hope to hear from you soon....but again...I can't blame you!!!
Thank you so much for keeping us updated! I often think about Stephanie and wonder how she's doing. I've never met her, I only know who she is through her blog (I found it after her plane crash). And I did a fundraiser to help raise money for her, which was such an amazing experience, to see how many people wanted to help. She seems like an amazing person. So, thanks again for the updates!
Michelle M.
I am blown away by the story and the writing. Welcome home to Utah, Stephanie and Christian!
Stephanie and her family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers... I'm so happy that she was able to make the trip to Utah to be closer to her family while she recovers.
Reading Nie's blog has truly brought me a different (better) outlook on my own life... and for that,I am very grateful- she such an inspiration... I hope the best for her and you all.
Wonderful, beautiful, honestly told story.... Soooo glad they have come home!
Thank you.
Thank you Courtney for the updates, I have been gone for 4 days, and no where near a computer. Now for catch up time!!! I am thrilled to hear they are going home! They are amazing!
Hugs and prayers from CA
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