For those visiting from the Weblog Awards (did I say yesterday was the last day to vote? Well, you've still got a half day left) and wonder what is going on here I have some answers.
First of all my name is Courtney but some people call me Jane even though that's not my name (it's my middle name). c jane wasa login my sister Stephanie gave me when we signed up for hotmail accounts. Hotmail, that was the same time as Stonehenge wasn't it?
The banner is an inside joke, that you could come to understand if you were to delve deep into my archives. I'd link to make it easier for you, but think of all the pageloads I'd be missing out on! Trilllllllions!
I've been a blogger for years now, only that in the recent month or two I've allowed the upgrade to Mommy Blogger as I am now a certifiable mother.
Before I became a Mommy Blogger I was just a silly, self-fulfilled blogger with a wild sense of narcissism. At the time I was married to an actor and employed myself as an aimless writer and had a severe obsession with burritos on the west side. If all of that sounds boring to you, then I give up. Wait, here is more. I don't have much political persuasion and currently I drive a Lincoln Navigator. Does that do anything for you?
My blog became big news when a family tragedy occurred and major publications picked up our story. The Today Show, New York Times, Arizona Republic. But I would take it all back just to have a completely healthy sister. You know, fame is fleeting and I am counting down my seconds.
But while I am counting down . . . why not win an award?
Also, I am a Mormon which makes me required to love everyone. And I am trying.
That is about it.
Oh other than, I am still married to my actor husband who likes to read Autoblog when I fall asleep at nights. He'd like to own a S2000 someday.
Which explains my ads.
For the love I've got spicy friends. And loyal soulmates.
And a few enemies it seems.
But remember? I love them too.
Thanks for stopping by!
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«Oldest ‹Older 1 – 200 of 221 Newer› Newest»XOXO CJane. I hope you win big.
(Someday Carina will kidnap us both and we'll meet - you know it's inevitable, right?)
How I love that picture of you. It reminds me of simpler blogging times.
Your banner is all sorts of awesome.
I love you. Again and again. Thanks for sharing your fabulousity with world. It's a better one with c jane in it.
Just so you know I am campaigning for you! I posted a a link to the voting So I am ready for you to win your much deserved Award.. oh and what ever you do don't ever go away. I like you way to much, and love that I get a daily dose of you ;)
Just voted. Again. Crossing my fingers for you and your pink skirt!
Oh look at that darling photo slash outfit! I am inspired...
your voice is ever cheerful, ever clever! the sturdy stocked spirit (holy alliteration batman!) of you and your family still holds me a bit in awe, being such a neurotic creature myself. :)
Wow, Diane, that hurts, and I'm not even C Jane!
ANYWHO, I noticed this morning that Enjoy It was head to head with Autoblog. To be honest I wasn't even going to vote until you mentioned the Mormon twist this morningish or whenever that was. Of course then I just HAD to vote. Off to do it again!! 'Cause technically it's the next day. :)
P.S. Why is it that people say things like, "God bless you", or "I'll pray for you" right after they have insulted you??
Ooo, ooo! My comment moderation word was "blogins"! Love that!
cjane, I can't get enough of the pink skirt and the cute heels. This is the year of the spice!
Good luck with the loving everyone bit - people sure make it hard sometimes (even Mormons, and sometimes especially atheists like me). It really troubles me that people would have a negative knee-jerk reaction to you based solely on your faith. One of the things that was considered remarkable about your family's story (at least in the NYT article, as I recall) was that it generated so much positive energy and generosity in a (largely) online community, without the snark and outright insults you find so many other places online. I hope that you are still feeling that positivity in spite of the recent incidents you've mentioned.
And with that, I will go vote for you (again). I like my autos in the garage, not online, thank you very much.
CJane, I read your blog everyday but I've never commented.
I think you are wonderful and inspiring and I am so grateful to have found your blog- full of wonderful wit and pure love for your family. I think you do a great job and you've given us all this gift- a glimpse into your life. You do it with humor, and style, and realistic, genuine grace.
Much love!
Aw, shucks! No wonder my blog stats went nuts with worldwide hits about one hour ago.
I'm hoping that Diane's comment came out wrong, cause I would hate to start spitting nails otherwise.
p.s. that shirt looks better on you than it ever did on me.
verification? inchic
I love reading your blog everyday! Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are truly an inspiration. You are awesome and your family is so much fun to read about. My mom is one of four girls and I am one of four girls too. Being a sister is the best and I understand sisters across the generations.
And Diane, knock it off. My sisters would be out of their minds with grief and would do anything for me in my time of need. Courtney is dealing with her family in the best way she knows how, through humor. Shame on you for your mean tone in your comment. And God does bless all of us everyday. Don't cheapen the blessing by using it in a mean way.
Welcome to mommy blogger world! I voted for you cuz Sue told me to.
I would have voted for you anyway cuz I check in with you every once in awhile to see how your world is.
Love that you keep it real! stay that way!
Just voted again, Courtney. I don't know where all these negative, horrid comments are in blog land and I don't intend to seek them out. I come to your blog for humour, whimsy and a dose of love. And I find it every time.
Yes. I found your blog because of your sister's accident. So? I'm here to stay now.
Love to you,
Jane (Melbourne, Australia)
CJane don't listen to Diane---she's just jealous that you have over double her followers, maybe even four or five times...
mean people. We heart you!!
Wow. People seriously have issues *cough*Diane*cough*. Poor Stephanie - she has a FABULOUS sister who has selflessly taken in her children and kept her story alive, and yet she has people out there insulting the very sister who has given her so much.
But on with the FABULOUS-NESS of cjane. The contest is neck and neck people! Get voting!!!
You are the best Cjane and Keep up everything you are doing!!!I love having you and Stephanie in my life!!! You are both a breath of fresh air and you make me want to always strive to do better. I pray always that you will have peace and strength to get you and Steph through your days!!!
Loves and Hugs
Tif
Good luck - I hope you win!!
CJane
I love your Blog! I can't remember how I stumbled on it but I check it often and you've inspired me to write my own. It's a new year's resolution: let's see how I go!
Edith
Shoo Diane - I think that's a bit harsh!
Good luck CJane - hope you win the award.
did you get my email about offering something for the auction?
Lo
Diane's post-it is supposed to be nice or hurtful? I can't tell.......just wondering:)
Oh my CJ you are a saint, its so refreshing to see that you are honest enough to print the good, bad and the ugly :)
Dianne, it's ironic that you think you are beautiful, maybe you are on the outside, I get the impression theres a whole lot of "pure bitch" lurking on the inside.
CJ, I love everything about your blog, Nie Nie's too. Theres enough room in my life for both.
Dianne, has your god told you that JEALOUSY is the greatest curse of all?
tsk-tsk, Diane. Go back to your mirror now, honey. The rest of us would like to clean up the comment room and get the stink out.
Love you Court-ney. I am still uplifted daily by your words.
Shirley
ah, the pink skirt.
Diane,
I love my sister so much. Everything I've done here has been done with the support of the whole family and done with the intention of allowing my sister her privacy when she wanted it most. And the only thing that matters is that she and I are on the same page. I think in due time you'll come to respect that too. But if "this blog" which is actually "my blog" makes you feel the way you do, let me invite you to stop coming by. It isn't worth it.
I know you will WIN.
If I could I would give you a hug!
Courtney, what a wonderful welcome to those that are new here! I have been reading for about six mo. and LOVE your blog. It is my daily pick me up that goes great with a huge cup of coffee and cinnamon toast. You make my day and for that I will vote...again.
Lee Anne
your posts always make me smile. keep 'em coming! :)
(i've been reading for awhile now, but figured today's just as good a day as any to say hello.)
I agree w/ i i eee--simpler times, oh simpler times.
And I may just work my way around the neighborhood today to vote on every computer.
Or e-mail everyone in my inbox and ask them to vote.
And I'm trying to follow your lead and love the haters, too, but honestly?!
But you? You're easy to love. And you're first place in my book no matter what the Internets decide.
xo
compulsive writer
Courtney, you are ahead in the poll! Woohoo!
Sorry about your recent troll visits...
I don't care what anyone else thinks, I am soooo grateful to you for keeping us informed on Stephanie (who I didn't know until her unfortunate accident but have come to love)and her family. Through your blog, I have come to know you and your charming Cs (Chup and the Chief) and can't do without you either. I'm even learning more about Mormans through your blog. I'm a Unitarian so am interested in all the world's religions. So, please keep on keeping me informed on all the things that you inform us on in such an interesting and charming way.
Com'on readers she's pulled into the lead!!!!
Miss Courtney,
I did discover your blog through NieNie, and I found her through Mormon Mommy Wars, and I found that through This Mama Makes Stuff, and I found that through Wardrobe Refashion, and I found that through Betz White, and I found that through Soule Mama, and I found that through Gluten Free Girl, and I found that through the Food Network, and I found that through cable when I go my first TV. Now I no longer have cable, but I do still read my daily blogs :) . Yours happens to be one of them, not only because I was so touched by the world's response to the crash, but also because I enjoy your words. I am not Mormon, but I do live in Utah, and I think that it is rare to find someone so open with their faith, and with their lives. So I send you kudos, because nothing is harder than being in the blogosphere with the haters!
CJane - I've been reading your blog for awhile but don't think I've ever commented. I don't understand why people feel the need to be negative on a personal blog, unless they're jealous of something. Regardless, they're not worth it, as I'm sure you know. Keep doing what you're doing - you have a wonderful blog and a wonderful family.
cjane, i heart your blog and I admire you for all you do. Also you crack me up on a regular basis. thanks for perservering and sharing such a unique perspective on life!
I am not a newbie, I have been around for awhile. I love your blog and your awesome banner. Keep up the great work!
I don't know what to say about all the nastiness going on. It has got to hurt.
I guess the important thing is that there are more of us with you than against you, and we know exactly where your heart is.
{smooch!}
(My word is booderf!)
Bah to the nay-sayers. I discovered your blog through your love of Stephanie (I'd never read her blog either). However, I really really enjoy your writing style, and once Nie is back I will still be a loyal follower of cjane. And will add Nie onto my blog list too.
I don't see how anyone could consider you an enemy.
I love CJANE!!!!
CJane,
I hope you ignore the negative comments and focus on the many positive ones. I did find your blog through your sisters (face it we almost always find a blog through someone elses blog) but am here to stay. I understand what you're trying to do. I choose to be here because I like you and you make me smile. Hang in there. There are lots of us who love you.
Lisa
Oh how you ALWAYS make me giggle with my first cup o JOE every a.m. LOVE YOU COURT!
I am so sorry to see what has been a beautiful thing disintegrating into all of this ugliness. What in the world is going on here?
I twittered you at twitter.com, so maybe you'll get even more votes:-) You are ahead! I look forward to reading your blog daily. I love your sense of humor & how you play on everything life seems to throw your way!
hi there, you're running neck and neck with autoblog; i thought your post on that one w/ chup was very funny! i'm pulling for you, cjane. with regards diane's comment: a) i'm hoping it came out wrong. i've reread it a few times and it's a bit confounding. b) if she meant it as it's written then she can't possibly have really read this blog in its entirety and doesn't understand the quick evolution from obscurity to fame and every little nuance involved in your journey. i'm glad to see you're letting the snarky comments on; it gives the rest of us an idea of what's been coming your way. i'm startled; just call me naive. thanks for the link to your friends' blogs: i've seen the name 'azucar' and am one of those who visited her blog just now. hopscotching from blog to blog is a delightful way to spend one's day (lol) but when am i gonna get any work done?! good luck with the voting! and yes i am looking forward to seeing steph come back to her writing but the two of you have such different styles and i love you both. geesh, no way have you "taken" her audience. please! okay. now i'm done. enjoy your day.
Wow, I am (mostly) a lurker, but let me say something?
I came to this blog because of the news reports about Stephanie and the Nie Nie Dialogues. I stayed because C Jane is good blog! Written by a good writer! I can't believe how much hate is being spewed by people! Jealous people, angry people, all in the name of Stephanie (yeah I'm SURE she appreciates you treating her sister that way- eyeroll).
I enjoy this blog (and past archives) on it's own merits, not because of Stephanie (although, of course I love updates, and am an avid follower of her blog).
So, in short... I think if you don't like where this blog is going, you can just stop reading it! Don't spew your hateful words all over the boards. C Jane doesn't deserve it!
I voted again for ya!
Gosh, the good, the bad, and the nasty...you already have so much on your plate with your full household. How do you do it saint cjane? I am so glad you have a wonderful supportive family and comment committee to back you up!
Did I ever tell you that you are my favorite, first-to-read blog every morning?
I just voted for you. I love you and your blog!
The inside joke really isn't all that subtle...and it is awesome.
Don't let the snark get you down. The fact that you're still loving inspires me.
We love our CJane.
Well, that's the last time I can vote, but yipee....you're winning!
You've got my vote. I think you are spectacular...don't let the naysayers get you down. Jealousy is so UGLY!!
Hugs,
LeAnn:)
When people truely have the love of God in their heart, they don't say things to intentionally hurt others. Shame on those who are posting negative comments to you.
You are just a sister who is doing her best to remain upbeat and positive during an impossibly hard situation. I think you've handled it with grace, love and a very enjoyable amount of humor!
Blog on cjane!!!
It still blows my mind that people go to other blog's and leave negative, nasty comments. I don't get it. If you don't like the blog or blogger then don't visit it. Isn't that a simple enough comment?
Courtney,
I love your blog! I enjoy reading about you point of view of life. Your funny, spiritual, sarcastic, and beautiful! I found your blog through your sisters. But I will continue to read your blog way after your sister picks her blog back up.
I think your amazing for all the wonderful things that you have done for your sister and her family. I'm not talking about the blog either. That was just a means to the cause. I'm talking about all the fundraisers, caring for her children, and so much more!
And I hope you win today!!!
While I wish I would have found you before an accident occured, I am happy to "know" you now! I'm still trying to get adopted into the Clark family! :)
I just voted (again) and you were ahead! Why would people say bad mean things about cjane? It boggles my mind!!! I looked at that Autoblog...*yawn*
You're the BEST!
I want an S2000 too. But I don't read autoblog.
I have voted a million times - and NOT for Autoblog. Well, maybe not a million - but, you get the point right?
Your blog inspired me to write. I'm definitely not as good - but it is so freeing (is that a word) and lovely that I now cannot stop. I love blogging, and writing, and reading, and blogsurfing (or stalking, but whatever).
Blogs are awesome and so are you!
Hi, Courtney -- I realized last night that of all the blogs in my feed reader, I look forward to reading yours the most each morning. I hope you win and boo on those haters out there!
p.s - I forgot to mention that I love that skirt and I love all the stories about that skirt.
That didn't sound appropriate did it? But you know - the funny blogs about the pink skirt...right?
So Mormons show their "love" by financing a campaign to take away people's rights, kind of strange no? Well congrats anyway, most of the vaunted left backlash I predicted is too busy smoking weed I guess.
"Marriage is between a man and a woman, unless you are Brigham Young, then it's between a man and 55 women."
Jane - you've had a couple recent mentions about negative comments, and although I think you're dealing with them ok, the fact that you're mentioning means it must poke at you just a little bit. Remember this: mean people suck.
I love your blog more than I am in love with those darling shoes! (& I LOVE those darling shoes!!)
As of 7:42 a.m. you are winning! Yahoo! Spicy skirts of the world unite!
CJane don't let those negative comments get you down! I love your blog and look forward to reading it everyday! I also originally started visiting after your sisters accident but have kept coming because I LOVE your writing, wit, style, humor and admire all you have done for your sister and her little family.
Keep it up!
Diane, so glad to see others see what's going on. (and it's not because you're "just jealous" as some would shirk. that's always used rather than looking to see if there's any truth to the differing opinion) My sister would never glory in fame gained at my expense.. Begging for votes. It's not right. There is no reason cjane couldn't have done updates for Stephanie on her blog after the accident, but she chose instead to link to cjane and pull everyone searching for Stephanie here while her sister slept. It should be NieNie's blog getting the votes. After all, she is the initial reason Cjane gets so many hits on her blog. Now she wants an award for it? c'mon. The fact she could even appreciate an award she would be getting only because of her sisters tragedy is pretty warped.
For those who are new... the header is a sick joke and not done in 'love' as she claims. She is watching her sisters children (as anyone would do for family) and has mentioned three or four times what an angel she is for doing so and how she has "secured her place in heaven for sure". These continuous comments she made while her sister lay in a hospital bed with burns on 90% of her body wishing she could be the one enjoying those precious children. But she's mormon so she has a huge mormon following. Some may take this post as unkind but it's truth and the truth often rubs us wrong when we don't want to face it.
Too funny!!!! I truly hope you win...or at least beat autoblog...at least that would give you some satisfaction!!!
Cjane, I found your sister's blog a few weeks before her accident and was immediately drawn to her perspectives and simple beauty. I started reading your blog when you took over. I have been deeply touched by your family's story. You have a gift for writing and I have so enjoyed your daily dose of wonderful wit. Thank you for the time you put in to tell your family's story and opening yourself up during this very private, difficult time. Religion-awards-knives-included... you (and your sister) have given so many people a something to look forward to everyday.
Lately, there has been some nasty people commenting and you have been blogging about it. It can't feel good to blog- or even fill your head with comments from the "nasties". My advice to you (though unsolicited!!) is to turn off the comments for awhile. Let the meanies go find someone else to bug. Your followers will still be here... just a bit more quiet.
Thanks again for your tidbits of wonderfulness!
(Sorry this is so long-- I have been a long time lurker and just got it all out in one big post!)
ahahahahahahahahaha - Love this post! I keep voting. I hope you win!
I have one advice for the mean people: read cJanes archive.
I am one of those who got here via via a donate-button on someones blog in september, I have followed ever since. I saw the change from 'telling Nie's-story' to what you call 'narcissism'. Then I decided to get to know the old cJane. And what I discovered was a wonderful writer with self-irony and wow she made me laugh.
So it is up to you if you want to sit there with the bad judging feeling, or choose to read, enjoy and get a good giggle!
I love your blog...I started reading when someone posted about Stephanie's accident and I fell in love with both you and her. I think it's entirely appropriate to reclaim your blog and make it about you now...Stephanie is recovering and will take on her own blog again...why shouldn't you be able to take yours on again as well??? I will continue to read both....
cjane, when are people going to get it that you had a well-known and loved "whimsical" blog waaaay BEFORE this accident?
sheesh.
And Tom, are you seriously going to go there on cjane's blog? Let's not, please. As if courtney hasn't had enough negativity for 1 week (month?..year?)
I love you, cjane!
Hang in there! I think your blog is wonderful!
de-lurking to say I love your writing, love your blog, and offer my best wishes for your family.
The tally when I just voted was c jane: 15,549; autoblog: 15,039.
I love love love reading your blog and appreciate your honesty and humor. Thanks for being all kinds of awesome!
Ugh...Is there a problem when I am literally sick/mad/frustrated/sad when I continue to read such negative comments from readers?
IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ THIS BLOG - NO ONE IS FORCING YOU!!!
It is Cjane's blog and she can write about whatever she wants. Write your own post on your own blog if you have something mean to say. Don't put such hateful comments on someone else's blog.
If you (the meanies) had such a tragedy in your family and you helped out to such an extent that cjane did, I would think you were angelic, too.
This isn't even my blog and I feel the need to defend it.
Yuck - the meanies are mean!
Hi CJane-
Totaly Frivilous Question Alert! As a "used to be blonde" I really admire your hair color. Do you get it done at a salon-and how often do ya hafta? Or if you do it by your onsies (would you admit it?) The color is so pretty (and so are you!) and mine is this ashy January brunette that is currently depressing me! Thanks! (even if you don't have time to answer nosy questions like this!)
Total love right back at you, chick!
When did the term "tongue in cheek" become lost in the collective awareness? People, cjane is poking fun at herself on a daily basis and laughing instead of crying--because sometimes those are the only two options. I, for one, look forward to January 16 when Stephanie will (I hope) set the record straight and sing cjane's praises!
I love your blog cjane! Keep on bloggin' Sister!
Hey CJane-
Totally frivilous question here-I am a one time real blonde-now ashy brunette-and I love your hair color-do you get it done, and if so what shade do you ask for and how often do you have to do it? Or if you do it by your onesies (would you admit it?) I love that you are the one blonde in your clan! Thanks (even if you don't have time to answer a nosy question like this!)
Hi Courtney,
I just wanted to say "YOU LOOK MARVELOUS!" your "baby" weight is c=gine and you are sassy or spicey whichever you prefer! Just wanted to tell you that have a good one! Donna
Awesome new banner. I like it, and I get it.
I was just reading my mission journal the other night and it made me miss you. You wrote me a note in there that said, "Thanks for making me laugh every day." Me, make you laugh . . .why doesn't Matt think I'm funny?
Love you! Voted for you, only once, but maybe it will tip the scales. :)
Holy Moly, You seem to have lost a lot of weight. May I ask how you did it? You look great! Please don't tell me running after 4 children, 'cause that never worked for me! Although it was a LOT of exercise!
Good luck! I hope you win...you are the best!!!
Jennifer in Ohio
I heart your blog and the stories you tell about your sweet Chief. I totally get your banner but with all due respect, I don't like it. I guess I just felt like it was more a representation of other people's snarkyness than to show your true beauty and humility (which is overwhelmingly special). Best to you and your family!
p.s. I love the pink skirt and the peep toe heels are SPICY!
Cjane,
Don't let meanies get in the way. Wow, it is amazing to me that people have it "all figured out"...what they would do, how they would do it. NO ONE KNOWS what they would do until it happens. And for the hugest majority of us, something like this will never happen. Back off meanies. Spout your "wisdom" and piousness and perfection somewhere else.
CJane, you keep it real, you have a quirky sense of humor and have been the epitome of grace under pressure.
You go girl!
Oh Court....I love your blog. I appreciate that you have updates on your sister. I think she is an amazing woman. But I read your blog because I love your writing and your irreverent sense of humor. But really do you need anymore reward than a sassy skirt and those amazing shoes...I really heart those shoes...
Last time I voted you had pulled in the lead. Autoblog...bleh
cheryl, I could be mistaken but I think that's an old (pre-baby) photo.
Even if you don't win...you'll always be a winner to me. (please read in a sappy, sweet, mormony, sunday school lesson voice) lol
Hey CJane, can I inquire as to where you bought those shoes? They're adorable. Much love, and I voted for ya, not AutoBlahhh. . .
You're in the lead you're in the lead!!
I'm so glad you didn't turn off the comments for good. I was getting a little worried yesterday. I know we all still want to be able to tell you how awesome you are!
Oh yeah and I L-O-V-E your pink skirt.
PS)I might have to start spitting nails at Diane with your pal Azucar...better stop before I say too much!
I found C Jane's blog before Nie Nie's... and I love both of them. C Jane, you are an example to all of us of true Christlike love and charity. Thank you for your sharing your story with all of us. You have accomplished a wonderful balance of keeping privacy surrounding Stephanie's recovery and also sharing your story. After all, it is not just Stephanie's story, it is her children's, her husband's, her sisters... This tragic accident has impacted many people, not just those who were in the plane. So many people have been blessed hearing about this story. Keep on blogging!
Well I voted...not sure I've ever commented either like so many others. But I wanted to say that you have done a fantastic job of feeding our hunger for Stephanie info while fiercely protecting your sister at the same time. You gave us small details that have helped us feel informed, yet we knew that there was so much more there. You've caused us to laugh and cry and feel joy and pain.
Your gift of writing is true. For that you deserve to win the competition because through your words you provided for so many; the privacy or your beloved sister and the nosey/concern of her fans, all while caring for your family and hers. yes you most definitely deserve to win!
I must say that you are one of my most favorite people.
Love you and your humor. Tongue-in-cheek is one of my favorite facial expressions. Keep it goin', girl!
Does anyone else see the irony in the fact that all of the negative comments were left by people that helped CJane reach that "major blog" status? So you see, you mean commenters, you've really been an active contributor to the very thing you complain about.
Life is like a buffet. You don't have to eat (or even taste) everything on it. If you don't like it, just don't partake. It really is as simple as that.
Just my 2 (or 3) cents.
Good Luck! I'm a newbie! I voted for you! Hope you win :o)
..Funny your husband is supporting "the enemy"
Boo on all the hateful, nasty, snide comments. What you and Steph have done with your blogs has been amazingly uplifting and a bright spot in my day. And I love what you've done while Steph has been recovering. I've been a (huge) fan of both your blogs for a few years now. I'm sad that anyone could turn your family's tragedy into something so ugly. There is so much beauty in the way you and your family have dealt with what's happened. I applaud you! And shame on anyone who says or thinks otherwise.
So, while voting for you, I did click on Autoblog to see what that's about. How unfair! It's Detroit Auto week--the biggest week for car afficionados plus their site has buxom gals on the front page! How is an adorably modest little Mormon gal supposed to compete with that? By being her awesome self! Sending love and ignoring all the negatives, Juliet in SoCal
I am still westside and I have your back
While most of us understand and "get" Courtney, and love her for that fact, there are one or two who concur with Diane. How sad that those few are so short sided and short minded.
Thank you Courtney, for everything you've done. You rock!!!! In my world at least. And your grace outshines Diane, Hopeless and Twoforone! poopoo heads, as my nephew would say;)
Everything you say, no matter how you say it, exudes happiness and a sense of peace! And that is precisely why I come here... as I need more of those two things in my own life! Thank you thank you thank you!!! =)
CJane,
Your strength and restraint amaze me. Thank you for the example of faith and internal fortitude. Like another, I came because of Stephanie, whom I love and pray for daily; I stay, selfishly, because of the way you make me laugh, and the way you see the world, and the gift you have for writing and laughing at your self. You have the gift to say what so many of us feel and only wish we could put those feelings into words. I've been voting daily.
Your blog brings me joy every day! Thanks for that.
Did you happen to see Tina Fey's Golden Globes acceptance speech this weekend. She addressed her internet haters...and she just might be on to something there.
I may not be the first to ask, but I have been wondering, was it the pink skirt that you found around your ankles not too long ago??
Inquiring minds want to know.
Heather (Port Moody)
WOW - I just read through some comments here and noticed one from "Diane". I had to read it three times to be sure I was reading it properly. I've only one thing to say about it (and my own parents taught me this one, as many other parents have taught their own)... "If you don't have anything nice to say (((Diane))) then don't say anything at all." Geesh, I'm such a mom when it comes to things like this! heehee
Tom I guess it is ok for one side to raise money for their side but certainly not the other side. Last time I checked people for gay marriage had raised more money than the opposing side.
Also funny that you and others think it is so wrong Brigham Young had so many wives and feel free to voice your distaste but feel people against gay marriage have no right to voice how they feel. Makes me wonder how you would vote if they wanted to bring back plural marriage and would you feel you had the right to vote which ever way you wanted.
Wow...I tried to comment last night but couldn't remember my password with the new and improved moderating system. Some of the comments since then literally took my breath away with their cruelty. Seriously, "Hopeless"? Seriously??
First off, I can't even believe how mean some people are... its just unreal. But, I suppose the Lord will have a chat with them about it someday at the judgment seat... that always comforts me!
Now, Ms. CJane... It's true that I did not become a reader until Lizzy Kartchner posted about your family and Nie's accident. It's true I browsed Nie's blog following her post. But, what is also true, is I came here and found someone I could identify with. Someone who made me laugh, cry, and think about life in a different way. Nie is wonderful, yes. Her accident tragic... absolutely. But, all things happen for a reason and if, in some way, the accident was God's way of bringing all these people together, who are we (or I should say, who are these meanies) to question His way?
I'd also like to point out that your audience is much bigger now than Nie's EVER was.... and that's not Nie's doing. People may have initially come here because of Nie, but they've STAYED because of YOU.
You give me hope that someday I will have a little Chief of my own... and that it will be as wonderful as I imagine it will be. I've been waiting a long time... reading the story of how long you waited lifted my heart and helped me to find hope again.
So, I've never commented before and just poured a lot out... sorry bout that.... but, I did want to let you know I voted for you (about 11:15am, EST) and the vote count is currently 13,915 for CJane and 13,089 for the Auto dummies. And, everyone!! You can vote up until 5pm EST (2pm PST) today! YIPPPEEEEE!! Keep on voting! :)
PS Do we really need to bring Prop 8 into this considering this is not what this blog is about?
can't wait to have stephanie back, good luck to you on the awards!!!! Give XOXO's to all those sweet kids.
I don't mean to be rude, but... Autoblog is La-ame! That's a serious two syllable lame. (Who am I kidding, of course i meant to be rude). But seriously your blog rocks!
Courtney Jane... I was the baby of my family and the only girl. I always wanted a sister. And if I'd had one, I would have wanted her to be like you. Any sibling that would put her life on hold to become mother to three of her sister's children is a hero in my estimation. I do however have Five daughters... and two sons. I have seen time and again, my children 'take care' of on another.. along with the typical bickering..lol. It's a wonderful life to be raised in a large family who love one another and have a deep abiding Faith.
I found you on a link... Had I not read YOUR blog, I never would have known about Stephanie. I've prayed for her over the last few months and her recovery is nothing short of miracle.
Good luck on the blogger awards. I did vote for you! But more importantly, keep "enjoying it." People will have their own opinions.. give them Grace and keep encouraging others to make their life spicy and enjoy their families.
I've voted! (again & again) You are to fabulous...I only wish that I would have found your blog sooner!
P.S.
I'm a huge fan on the new banner. Kudos to whoever made it!
I vote that HOPELESS' remark be removed from this comment section....I don't think i have ever read something more insensitive.
Oh! I forgot to tell diane to "go away and never come another day"
What a NOSEY gal you are Diane.....have you ever heard of PRIVACY?
I'm glad you turned your comments back on! As for the negativity you have received about being narcississitic (did I spell that right) or self-centered, I think that your blog is just fun and you! I love your sense of humor and the way you approach all that you have been dealt with. Besides, who would want to read a depressing and serious blog anyways????
Also, I have one request. When I redesigned my blog, somehow your button got cut in half on my sidebar. I can still connect to it but it just doesn't look as good cut in half. Will you be posting any new buttons to go with your new banner and new design? Maybe a small and a big one?
Keep up with the great blogging and we look forward to keep up with Stephanie again as well as you!
Sweet, sweet Cjane. I love you. I think you are supremely talented and if I lived in Utah I would probably try to become your friend by stalking you at Costco or someplace. J/K, sort of.
And I can guarantee, that all the nice people on here who don't have an ax to grind love you for what we've been priveledged to witness of your family's love for eachother.
Not just love of Stephanie, but the way you adore your baby and your husband and your extended family. You handle yourself like a pro. And I would like to see some of these people, ahem-Diane, Hopeless, Tom, hold up to the scrutiny that has invaded your life.
You are amazing. Keep your chin up.
We're all pulling for you.
Courtney- you've got thicker skin than I girl. I would have turned off my comments by now. Of course, I'm also private so that just shows you what a wuss I am. I hope you have a great filtering system for what is true and what is just negative people looking for a place to direct said negativity.
That said, thank you for continuing on. I'm having trouble getting the voting page to come up, but I'll keep trying. Good luck with the awards and thank you for continuing to be yourself (which people who didn't read before Nie's accident don't get apparently) in your awesome pink skirt.
Courtney-
We love you!!
I love that you are real...and that you portray yourself as who you ARE...Too often, I think we are afraid to be just us...the way God made and intended us to be.
I thrive on your blog every day...It gets me through the day and gives me the courage, hope & faith to endure every day trials..
Please dont rid of the comments forever...I need your thoughts...I need you, the world needs you!
I was gutted that my two fave blogs were in the same category!
No, not Autoblogs (why oh why??). Postsecret.
But everyone knows Postsecret - not everyone knows you, your hilarious/moving/inspiring writing and the tale of the last year.
Hope you win! xx
I voted for you, I hope you win!
I have been a fan of your blog since long before Nies accident. My favorite thing about your blog has always been your sarcasm and your humor. I don't get people, if they dont like your blog, then why are they reading it and why are they leaving mean comments.
You are awesome!
our household votes for your fabulous blog. cjane enjoy it deserves to win!
We all love you and want the haters to go away. I have been inpired, uplifted and entertained by your blog and Nie's and am so excited she's coming back soon.
BTW you look AMAZING! Looks like you have your pre-baby body back... that was FAST. Good job!
Oh yeah and I'm jealous too but only in a good way.;)
dear cjane,
i voted for your blog because it puts a smile on my face everyday. i am so inspired by your life, your attitude, your insistent positivity. thank you for being so open with everyone. thank you for inspiring all of us to be better people and lead better lives. i am a true fan, through and through.
emily b.
Autoblog is lame! I checked it out and I only lasted 1.25 seconds before I hurried back to your blog. Thanks for giving us something worthwhile to read.
life is no fun without enemies. it helps us strive to set a higher example- (p.s i voted for you as much as i could!)
I'm sorry people are so insecure that they have to be so rude and hateful towards you. I love your writing and think you're wonderful
I've voted for you every day and am hoping you win!
I love your blog Courtney, I voted for you as many times as I could. You're a winner either way.
Oh how I have to hold my tongue. It's a good thing I'm such a mature adult now with massive poise and taste, or else I'd say very mean things about very mean people. But I won't stoop to their level.
At least not publicly.
Is it so wrong of me not to want to tell you that this photo was taken pre-pregnancy?
Alright. It was.
Thanks for the love my friends. I am one lucky lady.
cjane, I don't comment often, but I'd like to add to the chorus of lovers, not haters. I found this blog through NieNie's which I found through another blog post-accident. But regardless of how I found it, I stay because it's you and your voice that enchant me.
I love your blog because I love your voice. I love the combination of spicy and sweet, sarcastic and self-loving (in the best possible way), sassy and selfless. I started blogging this summer, and I covet your voice and take on life. I've learned a lot from you about verve, living in the moment, and appreciation for daily life. If only more blogs could be as rockin' as yours is. And I'm about the last person to be interested in "mommy blogs" since, frankly, I'm not a kids person. But I love reading about your take on motherhood; it's refreshing, real, and sincere. If you're a mom (I must confess to hating the word "mommy," never called my mom that and it strikes a baby talk chord in me to which I react poorly, but enough about me in this run-on sentence) blogger, I'll take mother-blogging.
Finally, I'm not Mormon and love your blog. I'm a liberal, lefty, committed egalitarian Jew, and I love learning more about the LDS through you. I had a Mormon roommate in the past, and love learning about other religious traditions. Keep it up. Ignore the ignorant idiots out there. I'm all about alliteration today :)
Dear Cjane, I discovered your blog through my daughter after your sisters accident. I am a mother of 3 and a grandmother of 3 and I can think of no greater peace for your beautiful sleeping sister than to know someone is taking care of her children and providing them with a happy, loving, safe place to recover themselves. I love your outlook on everyday life and I respect very much the way you have handled this tragedy and allowed those of us who read your blog everyday to be involved in this process even in small ways such as prayers and good thoughts. So you just keep patting yourself on the back and know that you have made a huge difference in many lives. Heres to looking forward to many more blog entries to brighten my days the the days of many others. Thank You
Go CJane!!!! *POM POMS*!!!!
you're winning!!!!!
I had never read a "blog" before, but found yours & Nie Nie's after the accident. I think its astounding that you can even find the time to write at all with all of those kidlets running around! As for negative remarks, we should all pray for those posters, as they are undoubtedly hurting in some way.
God bless you & your family.
Ha! So you are saying you have to love me.... tee-hee-hee.
I swear I'm not the stalker type I'm just the lurking type which is a bit better I think. I have never posted to you before but wanted to tell ya that I really hope you win this! Good luck!
Aha, an S2k fanatic. Auto Blog is lovely and all...but he should really read boyfriend's blog (sorry, I know, as if you want him reading ANOTHER car blog...), as he is the leader in the industry of JDM tuning parts distribution & lots of fun car stuff that I know little-to-nothing about.
Have him check it out ;)
www.bespokeventures.com/blog
(And for a little fun S2k-specific info, try this: http://www.bespokeventures.com/blog/2008/11/06/bulletproof-s2000-gt-magazine-cover-australia/)
(sorry, proud girlfriend, what can I say?!)
Can I ask where you got your pink skirt, or what brand it is? Love it!
Twoforone is obviously a newcomer or she would realize that CJane Enjoy It was already a popular blog before the accident. Yes, traffic has increased a lot since then as it naturally would due to media exposure... which thankfully there has been media exposure because tens (or hundreds?) of thousands dollars have been raised to help this family! Why on earth shouldn't cjane update her own blog and not only Stephanie's? It was always hers, and has been for years! I for one love to tune in and read about her new adventures, the highs and the lows, of this life with a sudden houseful of children. And who on earth would have a blog up for an award and not ask for votes for it? I know I would, if I ever did! If you disagree then you must know nothing about the nature of blogging.
And for Pete's sake with all these people have been through why on earth would you want to say something mean? If it was my family in this situation I know my emotional state might be a little fragile (then again I'm not as strong as cjane) and despite so many well-wishers, a couple of bad apples might just send me to tears. So shame on you.
Hi CJane. I love the picture and I am crossing my fingers for your win! I enjoy reading your blog everyday.
I am a little late to the party so I don't know what Diane said but I can guess because of all the remarks made back to her. You may not want to read on but I hope you do and will think about what I have to say.
With that, I think everyone should back off of Diane. For one - she is entitled to her opinion no matter how it sounds. And two - someone said in their comment that we (LDS church members) should live a higher standard. I'm not really seeing that here. Shouldn't the higher standard be let it be?
I'm seeing petty, name calling. LDS or not, it's silly, no?
Diane's post is gone but Alison can call her the B word in her post, and that's fair?
At times even Mormons can say things that sting. I know this - growing up a bi-racial, liberal, mormon, part-member family. I heard all the comments and not all were good. But, my mom just said to let it be and we became resilient and the better for her wisdom.
CJane, you have all the power here.
You don't have to defend the why and how. Do any of your friends tell it like it is to you?? You seem like an honest and fair minded individual. Don't let this blog become petty. It's witty and pretty, not petty.
I hope you take this as constructive, thanks.
Love that pic of you! My fingers are crossed that you win. You deserve it. I can't tell you just how much I look forward to reading your awesome blog each day!
much love.
dear tom,
really? still prop 8? still polygamy?
get a new line.
if people would stop relying on john stewart and jay leno for their assessment of the world and its varied points of view, they might find that its a nicer place than they had imagined.
it's funny to me that so many seem to think that california is 52% mormon and 48% gay.
bless you, court, for being a positive representative of your faith.
I'm not sure why people think it's okay to criticize and tear down other people on the internet-- perhaps because it's somewhat anonymous. But I think it's terrible-- shame on all the naysayers who are jealous and self-centered.
You are adorable CJane and I am inspired by the hope and the love and the service you render everyday.
I can't even imagine dealing with the negative people who write bad things about you when you are doing so many good things and inspiring so many other people. Even if you don't win the weblog thing, I'll still come back and look forward to reading your inspiring stories everyday.
Thanks for all the good you do. Just remember that for every one enemy you have, there are 10,000 of us who adore you!!!
You could go private :)
Man, it's not like you ASKED to be on the polls for best major blog. Someone else put you there.
Sorry people are harsh. No one is perfect...I'm not. You're not. No one is. As long as we're happy and secure with our own selves, why bother with worrying over others' motives, lives, choices?
Judge not. Look to self.
By the way, the status of ANGEL has no borders. Heck, I had an angel help me one night when my car slipped on black ice. What did she do? Stop and help. I had no cell phone, she has one. She seriously was MY ANGEL at that moment. Who knows what really constitutes "Angel-hood."
"God bless us, everyone" (Tiny Time, A Christmas Carol, Charles Dickens).
Hey CJane, Just wanted to say that you always brighten my day. It shocks me that there are such miserable people in the world who want to drag wonderful people like you down with them. Misery loves company I guess. Don't let them do it. Thanks for all you do and Happy New Year of the Spice! :)
Oops, English teacher in me. Duh, it should read Tiny Tim!
Laura, I didn't moderate any comments on this post. Diane must have deleted it on her own.
It looks like you're ahead now!
Isn't it embarrassing how adults start behaving like children when there's a competition they might lose?
Count your fans, not the haters. Take the high road.
Through all of this, I can't help but think about what Stephanie is feeling when people who claim to be fans of hers, hurl nasties at HER sister.
And those who are coming from the other sites in the running for the award, well, they'll be gone in approximately 13 hours, right? So we'll just completely ignore their ridiculousness.
You are a great blogger who uplifts and inspires and who uses humor and tenderness to touch lives around the world. There is something to be said about that. Others just blog about automobiles. BOOOOOORING!
I hope you win C-love!!!
Love you, love your sister, love your blog, love your family, love your header, love you love you love you.
I wondered the same thing about the missing Diane comment. Hmmm makes you wonder WHY she deleted it?
I actually found you via another friend's blog pre-accident. I loved how ridiculously sarcastic you were and the funny spin you put on life. I hope those meanies don't ruin it for the rest of us. I would be awfully sad.
Please promise you will keep the angel. Seriously- if people are too daft to understand irony, there is no way they will EVER get your blog and why so many people LOVE it.
I would like to add my support to Laura's comment. I too LOVE your blog. I found it thru NieNie but stayed because I see alot more of you in me.
You're gonna beat the gear heads! YAY!
I'm so happy to say that I know you... well, in the 'I check your blog everyday' sense :). I wish I had found your blog before Stephenie's accident, but better late than never I guess.
Good luck with the contest! I have a hard time imagining how a stupid blog about cars could beat yours, but then again I am a girl :). Either way, I think yours is the bomb. Oh, and I LOVE that pic of you in your pink skirt. I was reading in your archives the other night and read a post about that skirt. Love love loved it!
Those jealous meanies can just go suck stinky socks. I love your blog.
S2K's are worth saving up for! My dad has one I try to get him to give me a ride any time I can. I love that care and he loves it a trillion times more than me!
By the way, I'm not a newbie, just a lurker who never comments but I am changing that now and commenting!
I am a total noob! So thanks for catching me up to speed. :)
I did try to vote for you yesterday but I think there must be a lot of people voting because the site never did load for me, even after I left the room for 30 minutes and came back! Hopefully you'll win despite my inability to participate! :)
I just bought tickets to the concert! I'm very excited! I got GREAT tickets, and as soon as I finished the purchase, I suddenly realized I'll probably be sitting among or close to your family. Which is cool... but now I'm worried that if I'm close enough to say hi I'll probably become my shy, nervous awkward self. So I'll be the one with a bag over my head so no one sees me blushing.
P.S. Why, haters? Why? No matter how those of us who love this blog found it, we come back every day because we love getting to know this beautiful woman who's not afraid to share her life with us.
daily I am amazed at your creative witty self. Thanks again for sharing you with me. You are loved!
Hello,found your blog thru your sistes blog thru another blog when I was looking for some inspiration, I am going thru a hard time dealing with discipline and other issues with my 6 year old daughter and I noticed how much LOVE your sister had for her children and how it transcended thru her blog and it gave me another perspective into motherhood....I especially love where she said her daughter got in trouble for using the monkey bars at school and she said that her daughter was stressed about it and she mentioned 6 year olds should not have stess in life! THAT IS MY NEW MOTTO! That hit home big time because I was trying too hard to make my daughter behave and creating too much stress and she really opened my eyes and I am trying. I loved how she let her stay home and have a fun day instead of punishment. She realized that was not what her daughter needed at that moment! wow! Not saying that is going to work for me all the time but it really gave me another way to see motherhood! AND in regards to your blog, I see the love you have for her children thru your words and I can not understand how people can think you are being selfish and rude.
I hope you win and I voted as much as I could!
All my prayers and support to you and your family!
I like your blog. I found it through nie nie blog after her accident. But I like your blog and will keep reading it everyday. Your blog is very different than stephanie's and I like them both. Both are unique in their own ways.
I hope you kick some Autoblog butt. ;o)
Love your outfit!
CJane..Negative comments?? What a shame...on them!! Yes, we all have an opinion but did their mothers not teach them the ol..."if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all"?? I love your blog and love what you have done for your family!! You are an amazing wife, mother, sister, and blogger!! You do not need to hear that from me though, you know it by the love your family has for you and that is what matters most, not random ppl w/neg comments! I am so grateful to you and Nie for letting me into your blog world. It has made me a better wife and mother, not taking anything for granted and sometimes letting the "little things" mean so much more to me than before I had heard about your family's story...Cheers and blessings!!
Thanks for being you, Courtney.
Autoblog? I visited it. I don't get it. (I'm a girl, is that why?) Good luck 2 U
Gaa, I miss you so.
why do people care if cjane has 'taken' some of steph's readers? first of all, stephanie hasn't been posting for months due to the accident. remember that, trolls? there isn't any competition for readers, and even when BOTH sisters were posting on THEIR OWN blogs, there wasn't any competition for readers.
second, the fact that revenue is made from cjane's readership (a large part of which may have previously been strict nienie readers) clicking on this blog does not provide for a moral/ethical dilemma. did you miss that part about cjane taking care of nie's kids? did you read the part about the astronomically high medical bills? do you honestly think courtney is hoarding whatever money she makes from ads for herself? really?
BTW, you look great in the photo on this post - love the hair, the pose, the skirt the shoes! Work it girl!!!!!!!!
Autoblog is so going down. I can feel it. =)
A couple of posts ago---were those kitchen knives in the lunch pail??? Sooooo funny if they were. What a collector. I will be sad when your done posting. Loves from WA State. Julie
I hope it's not premature to say, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
congratulations it seems you have won!janet in calironia
Congrats! I voted for you at home, at school and at work with three different computers :)
You're wearing your pink skirt from MANY blogs ago. I LOVE IT!
CONGRATULATIONS!
Congrats on winning!
Congratulations on the win!! I voted for you 3 times!! Managed a last hour vote on your behalf!
I've been reading your blog from both ends (I hope that makes sense) & I just want to thank you...I've been looking for a blog like yours. You deserved to win the blog awards! P.S. I want that pink skirt.
"And tell us what she's won, Jim?"
"C jane has won a lovely and most deserving blog award and her readers have won more of her!"
*audience goes wild*
As for your pesky little visitors who think they can come around here and pee on stuff? Well, if you can't lift your leg on the hydrant, you can't travel with the big dogs.
You rock with the big dogs!
Speaking of pee which I was:
My security letters are uppeepa
Why do I think that's funny?!
Long time reader...first time commenter. I just can't get over the fact that you could possibly have any enemies! And the times that you've hinted to some not-so-nice comments, who would do that to you? You are funny, witty, smart, inspirational, and awesome.
P.S. I love the outfit you're wearing in this pic. See, you have a great sense of style too. Who doesn't love that?
Never commented before, but just wanted to let you know that you are just my type of blogger: funny, open and honest. I started reading you at the time of the Nielson's accident, and I'm going to keep reading you...as long as that doesn't seem stalker-ish....
you won!!!
I hope you're celebrating your big triumph with burritos from the west and savory kisses from the Chief.
Congrats Courtney! You deserve it, and then some!
Congrats, Courtney!! YOU WON!!! :)
Yeah you did it Courtney!!!!!! YOU WON!!!! Congrats.....now call and order pizza and as my sister said "Eat it outside on a blanket in the grass so there is no clean up. Or better yet how bout I come make you guys some dinner and we can share with Nie and the rest of the family. Wish I lived in Utah cause I'd be there at 6!!!! Way to go
loves and hugs
Tif
HEY! Let me be the first to congratulate you. It looks like you won!
YAY!
Okay, so not the first, but one of the first. Congratulations anyway!
It looks like you're the (almost) clear winner! Congratulations, I think you're much more interesting than silly old autoblog.
And I love that little blurb for newbies. Very succinct.
Looking forward to what your new year brings you and me. My blog is not quite as cool as yours. But I try.
Glad you're the winner!
Laura, Diane made an remark that was unkind at best, and mean-spirited at worst. CJane was gracious in her response. That was a very high standard indeed.
Heather (Port Moody)
you won~!!!! Yay!!! I just didn't want your hubby's fave to beat you!!!
You are too funny ... love the subtle references to your competition.
I see you won!
Fifteen minutes of fame. How does it feel to be a blogging celebrity?
Okay, you've inspired me to create my own blog! Thank you for sharing your life and it looks like you're the big winner, congrats!! I'll find time to post my first official blog tonight, I hope!
Congratulations darling! I was sweating for you, but I remembered to use my chai vanilla Secret antiperspirant so things were all sweet and mellow around here. You deserve it.
First, let me say CONGRATULATIONS!!! You deserve it!
I have loved every minute of your blog... you've made me laugh and cry frequently. Well wishes to NieNie too! Can't wait till Friday for her return!
Second, since all of the LDS ladies are being so polite, let this non-LDS lady offer HOPELESS, TwoForOne and Diane what they deserve... a nice, hot cup of shut the f!@# up!
Hooray, you won!
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