
Before I ever had a child of my own my older sister Page told me, "Motherhood is like Groundhog Day."
And I thought, yikes.
Then today I woke up.
(Like the day before.)
And I could hear The Chief singing, "Mama! Baa baa!" from the nursery.
(Like the day before.)
So I pulled my heavy soul from bed and went to the boy. Opened his curtains, welcomed the sunshine like this, "Oh What A Beautiful Morning!" kissed his head, bowed over to fish him out of the crib, yanked him over the crib walls and put him on the floor for a swift change of diaper. Waved good bye to Dad.
(All like the day before.)
Then it was down to the kitchen for a bowl full of cereal (we share one bowl one spoon) and a refill of his sippy cup. I yawned seven or so times as I sat on the stairs using my spoon to bulldoze wheaty goodness into my son's mouth. Meanwhile, he took a serious inventory of all the pots and pans in the low kitchen cupboard.
(7 pots, 2 pans just like yesterday.)
When breakfast was over,we commenced our earnest daily cleaning regimen, starting with the dishes. As I rinsed and loaded The Chief resumed his post as Water Control while crouched in the sink.
(Naked, just like yesterday.)
Then it was off to dress the boy and myself and finish off the vacuuming, dusting and rotation of lazy laundry. I was interrupted by The Chief's demands for "bouy" in a bowl (that would be Pirate's Booty in a bowl) and "choo choo" (that means Thomas, you know, the Tank Engine) downstairs in the den.
(Thomas was spectacular, just like he was yesterday.)
And it seems like we've been at it all morning, but the clock hasn't moved past 9:42 in the last two hours. Which meant we aren't any closer to naptime.
(9:42 all morning yesterday too.)
Then it was time for cheese quesadillas with beans and a break for my feet. A couple stories in the nursery. A little boy's protest he doesn't want a nap. An insistence from me THAT INDEED HE DOES. At last, the golden hour of naptime.
(Not long enough, just like yesterday.)
A couple hours later we were back to making and destroying train tracks on the coffee table, eating more bouy, me sneaking a peek at my email, The Chief finding me on my laptop and insisting we watch youtube videos about cats (oh the fun), folded the warm laundry, hoped Dad will call soon on his way home, changed another couple diapers, filled another couple sippy cups, played smash crash with the wrecking crane and the fire truck, why hasn't Dad called yet? explained that Mao is out of batteries, tried to explain again, swept up the buoy making crunching noises on the bottom of my feet from the kitchen floor, dreamed about a really dreamy dinner, is Dad home yet?
(Dad comes home, like he did yesterday.)
We ate. We played a couple hide-n-seek variables. We went downstairs and had our nightly family dance party. We put the boy in the tub. We cleaned up dinner. We read scriptures. We said a prayer and put The Chief back in the same crib where we started from. We crashed on our bed together and fell asleep. (Only to wake up fifteen minutes later remembering there is still a young night with tasks enough to fill it.) Dad went downstairs to work and I blogged on the laptop in bed with a beverage. Then sometime late in the night we met up again, turned off our consciousness and fell directly to sleep.
(Sounds familiar? Think yesterday.)
Then in the morning we will all wake up and do it again. And again. And again. And again I suppose, until we decide we don't want to do it anymore. So Page was right, it is Groundhog Day. But what she forgot to mention is that it also includes buoy breaks and youtube cats.
Two things you can never get enough of, no matter how many times you repeat.
(I wouldn't change it for the world.)
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79 Pieces of Opinion:
c jane: i love this post; it is my life {with a few different variables} and it makes me happy.
peace and love.
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sg
i love your blog! you are hilarious and so down to earth! and you always talk about the funniest things. my prayers are with stephanie and her family as she is going through all her surgeries!
loves!
britt
brittnjacob.blogspot.com
How have I not thought this exact same thing before??? Motherhood really is like Groundhog Day! I absolutely cannot stand that movie, but I love my life! Weird, huh? :)
Deja vu everyday ;D
I had totally forgotten what today is. Is it possible to have mummy brain before motherhood?
Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are… Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect Tomorrow. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in my pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.
- Mary Jean Iron
I've always liked this quote, and your post made me think of it. Thanks for another great post!
Holy Crap Mao looks super real sitting there in the backgroud!!
Is Mao the cat under the high chair? (Did you know mao is the Chinese word for cat?)
And just to clarify is Mao a stuffed cat, rather than the real thing?
what is it about those cat youtube videos? If my daughter sees me on my laptop she stands in between me and the screen and yells "killie" until her favorite video appears. Is every mother living the same life?
This is probably my favorite post ever! My 18 month old boy and I do the exact same things, sharing cereal and all! Thanks for making me feel normal : )
I need to know - are you just saying or singing "Oh, what a beautiful morning" from Oklahoma ? ? ?
Thanks for reminding me a fun way to look at Motherhood - just like Groundhog's Day - amen to that!
I never thought of it like that before. I think I will now celebrate Groundhog Day as an extra "Mother's Day" in the year.
Sounds like my day exactly, except I am a real procrastinator with the laundry!
Loved this post. You always have a great way of describing things.
For some reason I have Groundhog week running at my house all the time...laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, piano lessons, chores, rinse & repeat. Wash same clothes, buy same food, cook same meals, practice same songs, clean same toothpaste off bathroom sink...and so it goes, it's enough to make one crazy! Then something truly out of the ordinary happens that throws me off schedule and nothing gets done at home and all I want is to be back to my normal routine. Until I remember that it makes me crazy, and it's Groundhog week all over again!
You and I? We are having the same day. :)
You speak truth! It's the same thing everyday, but my kids just keep growing and now I have no sippy cups to fill.
-FringeGirl
Hi-ya, from a frequent reader but lazy commenter! In that way of parental communal consciousness, we too have used the same Groundhog Day analogy for yrs. Good call on the groundhog nod. You nailed it. :) Happy day to you & All. Now back to the regularly scheduled program... with {4} 8 and unders...and one nest-headed boy who is the same age as The Chief but who has not had his nest trimmed off.;-0
Absolutely beautiful.... and so true! I am usually a lurker on your blog, but this post is how I have been feeling... sometimes it feels unappreciated and unnoticed... until one of my growing-to-quickly babes asks to snuggle, or loves on me... worth all of the money in the world!
I never thought of Motherhood like that, but it is true. Groundhog day...what a great post. My favorite thing is the laughter of my two girls when playing nicely together, or snuggling anytime of the day. I never want those things to go away.
What mother doesn't revel in the fact that 'everyday is Groundhog Day'?!! Thanks for reminding us we are all quite normal!!
i love how mao is chilling in the background just taking it all in. (just like yesterday)
this video is SO stupid but in the right mood can make you laugh. and maybe the chief too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cf3qkLVmI1g
thank you for this post. I love it. Like many other moms, it rings so true, it's amazing.
personally, what I found, 12 years into the job, is that you might not see the changes, but there are infinitely small variations to the groundhog day, every day. Maybe the baby says something new, or eats a new vegetable.
And before you know it, your goundhog day consists of driving your 12-year-old who's as tall as you to swimming practice, over and over. You buy him a deodorant, choose shoes for him by trying them on, and you wonder what the heck happened to that baby in a diaper. I swear, he was here just yesterday!!
from your groundhog day to mine, a series of infinite changes. everything is the same, and everything changes, all he time.
I just posted on my blog yesterday about this! (not as wonderful as you put it) but it is so true! Thanks for all your great insights. I enjoy reading!
I have been reading you for some time, but have never commented before (by the way, I LOVE YOUR BLOG...), but today's deserved a comment from the first line! I have been telling my husband that it feels like groundhog day for a couple of weeks now (I think the winter weather makes it seem more so). Knowing there are others out there, makes it all seem that much more bearable. Thank you for sharing and reminding me to enjoy the little things that make our days :)
Oh yes. And I promise you this: Thomas never, NEVER, ever gets old either.
So so very true.
Sounds all too familiar- except with a feminine touch. Makes me happy!
I'm jealous because my husband likes your blog better than mine.
I deeply miss my life like that. But now that I am a single mommy my "groundhog day" is very different. You have such a beautiful life and I have to admit that while I am thankful for the life I have it's not the life I wanted or picked... I'm jealous of your "groundhog day". This post makes me miss what I used to have. And I know now that I took it for granted. If I ever get it again..... well.... Words won't be ab;e to express the way I will feel.
Thank you for your beautiful views on being a house wife and mommy.
What a great post! Sounds like a good life.
-Amy
Crafting by Candlelight
Andrea, you just gave Mao the best compliment of his young robotic life.
Well said DM.
Cheers to everyone on this Groundhog Day!
p.s. I always thought it was Groundhog's Day. Just Groundhog Day.
It's the same day over and over UNTIL suddenly your baby is twelve years old and your youngest (the newborn! right?) is in preschool. I remember years and years (and years) that were the same... but then suddenly I woke up and everything was different! It's surreal.
Sarah, try blogging about your chest more. It does the trick.
...and groundhog day will only have slight variations when you add your new baby to the mix...
Yet Groundhog Day is my favorite movie! Living the life isn't always the greatest, but the redeeming parts make it worth it.
This is an adorable post...made me smile lots and lots as I sit in my cubicle / prison reading it. I stayed at home with my babies when they were 2 and newborn for almost two years and worked part time evenings. Now I have to work full time, but this post is so very true and sweet and made me warm and fuzzy.
P.S. I LOVE the banner, and love the pictures you posted yesteday. Just beautiful and natural.
Your friend in Arizona - Cathy
I never thought of it that way. That's why I try to find the comedy in the ordinary.
I will have to say that looking at it like Groundhogs day is much better than looking at it like the mythological dude that has to push the boulder to the top of the hill over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. Which, unfortunately is how I've been viewing it. Not the best. I need to change my attitude...because at least in Groundhogs Day you can work and change yourself to make things better.
Good post, but truthfully motherhood or not every day is a Groundhogs day.
Not a mother yet, but I go to the same job to do the same routine with the same outcome each and every day. I would trade it in a second for the motherhood groundhog's day version. Because at least with Motherhood you know that slowly but surely you're going something great with your life.
A job is just a job and anyone could take my place and it wouldn't make a difference.
I like to keep this in mind because when I'm no longer working (hopefully) and staying home with babies I think I'll appreciate it more because I've been there and done the whole groundhog's day at work thing, groundhog's day at home with babies sounds wonderful.
My son is still obsessed with Thomas at almost 4 years old. Get ready for a long love affair. We watch his show, read the books and are planning to go see and ride him in Heber in May.
Haha yes, this is it exactly. And Groundhog's day is *especially* big in our house, b/c it's also my son's birthday. Today he is 1 :-)
There is no clock in my 5-year-old daughter's room. And no alarm or movement in ours in the early morning.
And yet she is at our door every single morning at 6 on the dot. How??
I hear her bare feet on the wood floor and then, same as the morning before: "Mama?"
I love reading your blog...it just cracks me up. This post was no different....I loved it and I totally know what you mean.
you tube puppy and kitty videos have saved many a rainy afternoon at our house.
The Chief and I have something in common—I too love watching mindless cat videos. The only difference is, I'm not a small child. My personal fav is Cat in the Corner. Look it up...it's especially funny when you're tired.
Loved this post! You make me excited to become a mother! (soon, too.) :)
Courtney,
You are so right! I am a 21 year old mother to a 17 month old, and every day may be a little different but the routine is always the same! Glad to know I have so many women to relate to!
You are awesome!! Keep up the good blogging :) :)
Megan
This was the most perfect, perfect post. Thank you.
As always thouroughly entertaining and totally TRUE! How do you do it day in and day out? (the entertaining uplifting blogging that is, not the motherhood thing. The motherhood thing we all do and hopefully love. You just remind us why we do.)
Can't wait for tomorrow.
We have that same cat....scares the crap out of me!!
So I had never seen that movie until just a few days ago. (my husband was apalled) and as I was watching it, I thought " that would totally suck".... as I did the exact thing with our 18 month old as I did yesterday. Yup, just like Groundhog Day... LOL. Fortunatly the kiddo is better looking than Chevy Chase, and likes Disney movies. Whew!
your boy has quite an arm! did he throw that? i love this, seeing a day in the life of anyone. i love how similar we all are...meals, laundry, tv shows we don't want to watch. but i really love how we all do it differently!
p.s. are you going to be sad when there is no more nap time? it was the worst day of my life.
That is a beautiful post! Makes me wish every day was as "boring" as yours! :)
I love this post! Enjoy your ground hog days now before they get much more hectic and stressful and your baby(s) get older!
This capture life and a stay at home mom to young kids! Thanks!
yes!
right on YES!
I so love this post. I've told my husband this over and over again - my life is like the movie Groundhog Day. But a better version:)
What a beautiful post! I'm with you, sometimes redundancy can be quite lovely, actually!!
I think you are a fantastic writer, so glad I found you!
This reminded me of when my kids were little. My oldest son made me read "How Dinosaurs say goodnight" every night. Today, things are different; it is me that repeats..."Did you do your homework? Have you fed the pets?"
Oh yeah. I can so relate. No wonder I love that movie so much! I love my "normal" life too. What is that saying...The days are long but the years are short...ain't it the truth?
Courtney--Enjoy these Groundhog Days because they slip away so quickly. My "baby" is now in high school, and reading your post made me miss even more those days of being home with my little guys during the day. Those were such fun times, but of course, they've been replaced by different kinds of fun times as they've grown older.
When my boys were little we used to share a bowl of cereal each morning too! Makes my heart ache for those "simple" groundhog days! Thanks for the amazing post!!!
You have an amazing talent. Please don't ever stop writing! I love your posts about motherhood. So many of us can relate to this lifestyle, and yet you remind us at the end how wonderful it really is.
Yep. I like this post. It is so true...though, my groundhog day includes a lot more yelling and not so much cleaning, more television, less playing from me...wow. I kind of sound like i suck. LOL.
Following you now from Blog Frog though. Great blog. I can't wait to read more.
Love the post Courtney!! Here is another cat video for you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-rqe9vB-KM. It was taken 18 months ago right after we got a kitten.. ;o)
I love this post! Oh how I remember my Groundhog Days.
This is a beautiful post.
It's so true! Every day is groundhog day if you want it to be; routine is comforting yet concerning at times.
But then come days like today: I've had three surprises since waking up and must admit that at first, I was a bit annoyed that my routine was broken.
But then I remembered your post and decided that these unexpected moments would have been bliss to Bill Murray half way through that film so I should embrace them.
And so I pulled out my camera and turned the day around. You can read about it at:
LifeasWeBlogIt.blogspot.com
Once again, thanks CJane for giving me the nudge to reconsider my point of view!
Ali
Ha ha.
Ok the whole time I was reading that I was thinking, "how is raising a child like seeing if you have a shadow or not".
Now, I see it is about a movie. Phew.
I obviously stayed up too late or got up too early.
That movie drives me crazy; I love having a non-routine, a job that's different every day I walk in. The routine nature is actually what freaks me out about motherhoood a bit. I think just one more way I'm not cut out to be a SAHM...?
Great way to look at Motherhood!
Have a great day!
Life of a Mommy...isn't it heaven? Some people would love to be a SAHM but they aren't fortunate enough...I am one of those...makes me sad..:(
When my son was that age, we spent much time watching cats and dogs on youtube as well! If you haven't seen it already check out "morphing kitty song" on youtube. It was his favorite. Kitty said what?
Cute post!
I had that some thought this morning: "Oh my word. I have become Bill Murray."
aaaah. "(think yesterday)". Um, I love it?!!
Wow, I am so glad to hear that my groundhog days are shared by other moms as well. :) Couldn't help but utterly COMPLETELY empathize with you on that entire blog. Except for the youtubed cats part, which I will now have to remedy.
Yup that sums it up. Thanks... needed the laugh today.
Last month I kept telling my sisters this same exact thing, especially my younger sister is isn't married and does not have children yet.
I told her I was going to do a blog-post about it, but you beat me to it. Great minds think alike-I guess!
I told her it is exactly like Groundhogs Day, but for some reason I wouldn't change it for anything. I really do despise the humdrum {especially dishes and laundry}, but it is in those moments that my kids say something that has us all hysterically laughing, or I watch them playing out the window in the backyard and realize this {raising kids} will fly by too quickly.
{I love your blog and appreciate your dry sense of humor--{that's a compliment}}
This is so true! I'm glad I'm not the only one... :) Love reading your blog, and NieNie's!
You made my day with this post! I just found your blog, and I'm hooked :) Your day sounds like my days.....right down to the Pirate's "buoy" ;) and Youtube cats!! if you can believe that! I have two boys....2.5 yrs and 4 months....and I wouldn't change it for the world either.
Thanks for putting it in words so well!
take care,
Tracey
myhouseofgiggles.blogspot.com
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