Comments on c jane enjoy it: Where I End And Offend Begins

C is easy to learn. It the procedure oriented lang...

2009-11-15T04:42:37.724-07:00

C is easy to learn. It the procedure oriented language which is used to software development for complex and easy applications. C is also widely used for developing portable application software. C is one of the most popular programming languages. It is widely used on many different software platforms, and there are few computer architectures for which a C compiler does not exist. C has greatly influenced many other popular programming languages, most notably C++, which originally began as an extension to C.

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An offense is like a dirty sock....who wants to re...

2009-11-09T08:22:14.653-07:00

An offense is like a dirty sock....who wants to receive a dirty sock? I try to just listen, listen and love, love. If people hurt my feelings I just give it to Jesus because He has my heart and is more then capable of working it all out. I choose rather to forgive and throw things into the sea of forgetfulness like Jesus does. Hugs!

Hrmph... the thing that offends me the most is unn...

2009-11-07T05:09:30.716-07:00

Hrmph... the thing that offends me the most is unnecessary comments, when someone unnecessarily tells you something you already know, whether you want to know it or not. Like rubbing salt into the wound, I guess.

I heard a "Sealer" many years ago, counsel: "The m...

2009-11-06T08:42:52.368-07:00

I heard a "Sealer" many years ago, counsel: "The more easily you are offended, the futher you are from the Savior." I use that as my gage when I feel myself getting upset or offended. I begin to think-where am I in my relationship with the Savior? It keeps me on track. I think they are great words of wisdom-"The more easily you are offended, the further you are from the Savior."

More cookies?

2009-11-05T02:44:08.478-07:00

More cookies?

hmmm.... I think it's therapeutic to figure out wh...

2009-11-04T12:46:01.800-07:00

hmmm.... I think it's therapeutic to figure out what offends you. I think it will help people to not "Sweat the Small Stuff." :)
What offends me?
1.Small-minded people who think they are open minded.
2. Political Programs on all channels that interrupt all good tv and then I am forced to watch bad TLC programming.
3. And this is the Big One: When people tell me I look tired or sick when it's obvious that I showered and put on makeup and Tried to look pretty. This was especially true when I was pregnant and swollen to the point that I resembled an overcooked sausage.

My mother-in-law...... ......... Yep, that's about...

2009-11-04T08:34:45.741-07:00

My mother-in-law......
.........
Yep, that's about it.

It's a Church thang. Seriously. Sorry for saying t...

2009-11-04T07:09:50.855-07:00

It's a Church thang. Seriously. Sorry for saying that, did I offend anyone? If I offended you, then I didn't mean it, and I'd like to bear my testimony of the importance of forgiveness and blah blah blah.... I agree with the being "programmed" to worry about offending others in our Church. It's a habit now, the latest style in Mormon-speak now that "Every fiber of my being" is so last season.

Here's my beef: Don't you think humanity would be a bit stronger, a bit more in harmony if we could stop treading on ice and just BE happy with ourselves?

The very best advice I was given is this:
"It is none of my business what you think of me." Changed my world.

I was apparently born with my foot in my mouth and...

2009-11-04T01:13:14.094-07:00

I was apparently born with my foot in my mouth and missing the tact gene, so I have offended many without even knowing it. One friend waited three years to tell me I had offended her three years ago. I could have apologized so much sooner had I known! I am not easily offended, but I do dislike condescension.

I too hate it when people diss Utah, especially Pr...

2009-11-03T23:42:57.670-07:00

I too hate it when people diss Utah, especially Provo. When I lived there people would go on and on about how horrible this or that was, and I'd always just say, NO ONE IS MAKING YOU LIVE HERE! If you don't like it leave, so that those of us who do can live here in peace! sheesh. I guess I get offended when people choose to complain about their situation rather than just embrace it or change it. Yup, that's it.

well here's a little something out there :) http:...

2009-11-03T22:38:54.719-07:00

well here's a little something out there :)

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_Courtney_Jane_and_Chups'_son's_real_name

As a recent mother of a near-drown victim, I can h...

2009-11-03T22:16:19.996-07:00

As a recent mother of a near-drown victim, I can honestly say that judging of mothers who have lost or nearly lost loved ones to the "waters" is my ultimate spot. I'm sure this is more serious than you were expecting, but I had to write it.

My first comment but I am pretty passionate about ...

2009-11-03T21:01:44.567-07:00

My first comment but I am pretty passionate about this subject. Basically, I hate that word "offend", really no one even knows what it means. What does it mean?
Yet people use it way to often. If the word offended didn't exist what word would take it's place? A phrase maybe, "hurt feelings" or "upset".
The word "offend" sounds like a blaming word and it goes both ways which is really weird. Watch this, "I am sorry I offended you" Blaming me for being offended OR "You offended me" sounds like you are blaming yourself for being offended. WEIRD!! But try this, "I am sorry I hurt your feelings" DIFFERENT, now they are taking the blame.
As far as I am concerned the word "offend" should not exsit. Because it is a lot easier for me to say, "Oh don't worry you didn't hurt my feelings" instead of "why do you think I was offended?"
THE WORD OFFEND IS VERY OFFENSIVE TO ME. (probably because my mother in-law used it way to often when we were newly weds)

Well, I know what offends me. When people critici...

2009-11-03T20:42:43.041-07:00

Well, I know what offends me.

When people criticize, myself or anyone for that matter, without a good case or evidence. If you're going to go there- go there courtroom style.

When people don't really listen. This is so frustrating, and I encountered this a lot from people (not the good friends, but a lot of people I wasn't very close with) when I left the LDS church. People were programed to think I was just "offended" by something a person did. Nope! Love so many LDS people- but that's going down another road...

Not much gets me anymore. Except... right now I'm busy and trying to save money. I was doing a photo shoot was a wealthy family's home and the little girl says to me, "there's a hole in your dress." Now, granted, it was coming from a five year old- so it was cute, and I do look at my clothes before I put them on. Sure enough, I got home, and there is literally a pin sized hole in the back. I guess I should throw it out! Oh gosh.

It's nice to have thick skin.

What offends me is purposefully rude people. You ...

2009-11-03T18:49:51.390-07:00

What offends me is purposefully rude people. You know, the kind that see you running to catch the door while it is still open because your arms are too full of crap to open the door your self and yet they don't even bother to hold it for you. Yeah, on a given day, that will get me boiling.

Maybe they are afraid that if they offend you then...

2009-11-03T17:26:01.697-07:00

Maybe they are afraid that if they offend you then you will blog about it and the whole world will know, so instead they apologize to stay on your good side so you won't.....oh wait....you just did. Well, you sure showed them!

I think your friends and neighbors don't want to s...

2009-11-03T16:59:24.071-07:00

I think your friends and neighbors don't want to show up on your blog! :)

I get people apologizing to me too and I'm always ...

2009-11-03T16:20:25.319-07:00

I get people apologizing to me too and I'm always like, " I have no idea what you are talking about!"... I must wear a grumpy face and not realize it or something. I don't get offended too much- but I do get annoyed- particularly annoying to me is arrogance, pretense and snobbery.

Right now I'm offended that people look at my 25 w...

2009-11-03T16:12:39.065-07:00

Right now I'm offended that people look at my 25 weeks pregnant belly and "aren't sure" if I'm pregnant or not. Do I really look like a keg a day girl?

I had an ectopic pregnancy earlier this year and h...

2009-11-03T16:01:14.153-07:00

I had an ectopic pregnancy earlier this year and had to take a medication that would cause my body to miscarry. While this was going on, a lady at church walked up to me and very loudly asked if I'd had the abortion yet. That has been the only time I've been offended by something someone else has said to me. I'm working on forgiving her.

I look young for my age, and I am offended when a ...

2009-11-03T15:54:40.903-07:00

I look young for my age, and I am offended when a stranger refers to me as "sweetie" or a lover as "young lady"--neither in a mean way; both sound and feel offensive to my irrational ears.

Why must everyone else's comments reflect such mat...

2009-11-03T15:53:55.419-07:00

Why must everyone else's comments reflect such maturity and insight? I was all excited to list the many things that offend me, but reading so many positive perspectives has almost changed my mind...nah..let's list them anyway!!

Things that Offend (Or at least Annoy) Me

1. People chewing ice

2. People who post excessive emo status updates on facebook

3. People saying they wont read Harry Potter because its about witchcraft!!

AHHH!! The last one really offends me:)

On a side note: You served in Montreal, right? So did my sister!! (Sister Hinsdale)

bigotry offends me. i don't think much else does....

2009-11-03T15:29:25.940-07:00

bigotry offends me.

i don't think much else does.

i had a neighbor come knocking at my door a few weeks ago, shortly after sharing Sunday dinner with them. She wanted to apologize for saying something like my calling at church was easy. I had no idea what she was talking about--but agreed that it was easy...after she left, I told my husband: I have finally met somebody who worries more than I do. Poor woman.

Very little offends me, but, I did get this in res...

2009-11-03T15:11:02.331-07:00

Very little offends me, but, I did get this in response to my "will there be santa at the ward christmas party this year?"

"As long as I'M in charge there will NEVER be Santa at this party because he is a lie... and the devil is the father of all lies"

Which made me feel as though I was a part of the devil's sinister santa program (tm) for even mentioning it. I was a wee bit offended I suppose.

I don't really get offended but I do get irked whe...

2009-11-03T14:44:28.958-07:00

I don't really get offended but I do get irked when people (in front of our daughters who are recently adopted) say "Congrats on your adoption! Are you going to try have a real baby next?"

Wow. For fakes these ones sure eat a lot!